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I ordered the CB and a cage as an experiment, both take some time to get used to. Both require a relaxed state from all organs before installing. Don't try it when it is cold. It helps to be shaven.
I have been using a cb for 3 years and although it did take time getting used to it, she is happy with it because it stops my masturbation habit and it is always saved for her only.
I have a CB-6000S. I have a very average size penis and am a "grower" so this was the right choice for me. I find that lubrication is critical. Urination can be tricky, but I am getting used to it. I workout a lot, and being locked does require a bit extra work from my normal routine (dressing/showering in a locker room). I don't mind - and even like - my morning erections (bear in mind that I am a bit of a masochist though). I have never had any issues going to sleep and being woken up with pain. my wife doesn't like the "hardness" of the polycarbonate cage. I looked into some alternate devices that are not as hard (such as the Birdlocked) but probably won't bother because we don't really use the device often enough to justify the cost.
Has anybody here looked at the site www.dreamloverlabs.com . They manufacture a device called a DL2000. It is an add on to a chastity tube that enables a woman train, discipline and motivate their man, through a series of electric pulses delivered via a remote control. The product is clever and has a number of features. Obviously quite a bit of research and hard work has gone into its development. There are also a number of well written articles in a part of the site called male training theory. Its quite expensive. Its a product in which probably only couples in level 3 or level 4 would be interested. Has anybody purchased or is anybody thinking about purchasing one of these devices?
Firemansam I read many of the articles and pages on their site but did not invest. It sound painful and more like I would become a robot. I wondered to myself if the women training me would still want what she created when she was done, especially with their idea of recasting how men see themselves. It seemed more like 4+ off the deep end to me for female supremacy. Which I see as their choice of books recommended to read. Just my thoughts. I'd love to hear from couples using it.
Radzzz It is my understanding that no product actually exists. gat1207
gat1207 really? is it a scam or someone collecting data? or???
Radzzz I agree with you that this product, and I am fairly sure it is now in production and shipping, is probably only for those in 4+ level relationship, if the woman uses it in the full caffeine way advocated on the site. I do find the work and ideas involved in creating highly innovative. Then for a small company to develop and take to market in small production volumes quite an achievement.
Radzzz Their site now offers an additional service of consulting on how to develop and produce niche products. If you go back through their blog, it is quite a story.
Firemansam There was discussion of the Dreamlover 2000 under the topic "The psychology of punishment." At the time they had not released their device and some people questioned whether the offering was real or a hoax. They have since released the DL 2000 device and are in the process of releasing other products (training courses integrated with the DL 2000 and a key "vault" device). See the prior discussion for some opinions on the device and its providers.
I have the cn3000 & the cockcage. I found the cb3000 to be harder to get out of but still possible and very hard to sleep with. The cockcage is easier to hetty out of buy is very easy to sleep with and is soft which my wife loves about it. if your penis is shorter than 6" get the short shaft for the cockcage as I am 5.5" long and the regular shaft is to big. If you are looking for short term and secure and you don't have a peircing, get the cb3000 with the spikes attachment. If you do have a peircing than get the lori tube. I only use the cockcage now as I would never want to break my wifes trust by trying to escape and the cockcage is comfortable but not forgettable.
Most male chastity devices have one or more of the following problems: 1. They are not suitable for an active/athletic lifestyle. Iâ€™m an avid cyclist, and devices that rely on a scrotal ring or full belt are not practical for anything more that very casual recreational rides of short duration. 2. Theyâ€™re not really secure. I can easily pull out of a CB-6000 or similar device, and I know from my discussions with others on male chastity-related forums that my experience is not unique. After 15 years of trial-and error experimentation with many different chastity devices, Iâ€™ve concluded that a chastity tube design that relies on a genital piercing (e.g., a â€śPrince Albertâ€ť) rather than a belt or scrotal ring or belt is the most effective and practical device. However, many of the commercial designs are expensive and not â€śmetal detector friendlyâ€ť. There are a couple piercing-type chastity tubes that Iâ€™m aware of that are mostly non-metallic (e.g., PA-5000 and some sold by Ms. Lori).
I've been wearing a chastity device 24/7 nearly three years now, and have tried a number of devices. OK, a lot of devices. Our purpose is masturbation control, not just for chastity and denial. Once masturbation was brought under control, all erection problems went away. I'm always ready when she's ready, and sensations are as intense as they were when we got married over 30 years ago. I can't see us ever going back. The Holy Trainer is one of the most popular, and there are now copies from China in both resin and stainless steel. I've found that shorter is better, as in much shorter than you think possible. The shorter the cage, the more comfortable and the less pinching. I bought one sold as A077, which is stainless steel, and wear it most of the time. That was a game changer for us. I've been able to go for nearly a month at a time without taking it off for anything other than cleaning. The short Holy Trainer is next in line, and is very comfortable. It is possible to get out of some, but I find that it is more difficult with the short HT, and even more so with a short stainless Chinese version. My wife likes the results, and likes looking at the shiny metal cage on me.