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I have hear of several things that women do to make the experience special for men and some things that men have asked for from their mates. One thing I have done is to wear the key openly and remind him of it. What about you. Tell about how you make the experience special as a couple - men and women reply.
Ann That does sound sexy! As of now, we use the honor system, we don't have any device. I'm glad to say that in the last year, I never did masturbate without permission. I do sometimes ask myself if using a device would make it even more interesting...
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Ann1000Days My work takes me away for six weeks at a time. My wife doesn't like me to release without her permission. She likes to know that I am still focussed on her while I am away, she expects me to skype or chat several times a day. I am on the honor system, but when it begins to get too difficult I use a device. She doesn't much like it but prefers that to me having an unauthorised release. She normally allows a release once about three weeks in and again a few days before I return home as we both get impatient. It's always initiated by her, we joke and play as it happens so she is with me in a virtual way. During the two weeks at home there is no device. We make love most days but I am expected to ask before cumming. To keep my interest in her high she refuses some of the time, or maybe says as we are playing around at the start that I can only visit, not more. That way she gets to take me inside her, which we both like, without any drop in my interest levels. This seems to be a practical solution to our specific situation that is workable and sustainable all round. She gets what she wants when she wants it, I get to enjoy being in courting mode as well as special treats both when at home and away. I hope this is helpful to share with any other couples in our situation.
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I introduced my wife to male chastity. I have a CB-6000S and we use it at a rate of maybe 4-5 times per year. I am more intersted in playing with it than she is, although she does enjoy it when we play. Her main reason for not locking me more is that she enjoys my erections and she prefers me to use my willpower to remain chaste. As far as what she can do to make it special? It mainly revolves around her openly showing that she enjoys this special power/control. This can be by snapping the lock shut herself, by texting me about my predicament, and by teasing me during sex play. I fantasize about her actually putting the entire device on herself. Just as with other things with sex, there is a lot of room for creativity with keeping your man locked.
I too wear a CB6000 device.
Usaabn Note to writers, saying "I love this", or "how great something is" or adding fetish clips does not really help anyone and is not very good information. What we want is a frank and grown-up discussion about what couples do with male chastity. Let`s turn about this forum ann teach other we we are doing that is wonderful and helpful.
I stand corrected and might I say I'll work harder in the future to better craft my words. Thank you usaabn
To Ann1000Days: You R absolutely right. But probably the man that wears chestity device has so wrecked personality that he is not able to think as human being anymore. My wife has discovered it right now. And I know I will have no power to resist her decision. If she decide to lock me, I will probably write same way as those that already loosed their mind.
I have only been practicing a month with the Bon-4, I had realized that I did appreciate her the way I should have. After purchasing I told her about my lifestyle change, and have been incredibly happy since than, I pamper her, and serve her. she's always been fairly dominant. Now since I recognize this life has never been better. She is still trying to adjust to my changes. But both a agree I am a much better husband
My wife initially brought up the idea if using a chastity device. Our current arrangement is that monday through friday, I put myself in the device and them present myself to her so she can close the lock. I stay in it until night, usually being unlocked right before we get in bed. She doesn't require that I'm in it on the weekend, just when we are apart. She used to wear the key on a bracelet, but we had to get a new lock and the new key is not at all decorative, so now she keeps it in her jewelry box. I wear cb-3000
We do male chastity on the honor system because she asked me to only reach orgasm with her and we do not go past 6 days without me reaching orgasm. Neither of us is interested in long term chastity as we both like sex too much for that. For us, MC becomes an exciting game for my wife as she teases and denies me orgasm until the appointed day for me to reach orgasm. That day is decided by the throw of a single die. So I know when I will be allowed to orgasm and that makes it more exciting for me as it is something to look forward to just like when we were dating and I saw her only on weekends. It also makes it easy for me to remain chaste for her. She was not crazy about the idea at first but she was enjoying the tripling of orgasms for herself that was the result of me massaging her almost daily and her enjoyment of hearing my moans when she teases and denies me. Today was a good example. She told me to massage her feet as she does almost daily and afterwards said we could snuggle. At first she was fully dressed as she was not horny but after teasing me and seeing the effect and hearing my moans, she undress and had me perform oral on her. Afterwards she told me I was killing her because our sex life before FLR and Teasing and Denial, was about 3 or 4 times a month. Although that is about all I am allowed each months, she does that in a week now. I am lucky as she is one of those women who can orgasm in a few minutes and do it often. However her orgasms are so intense that her legs and toes cramp up so it hurts afterwards. I have not idea on how to lessen the intensity of her orgasms and do not think she really wants to. She also is excited by the first two times she ruined my orgasm as I taught her (I also taught her how to edge me) as I expelled a lot of semen but was able to reach a second orgasm even more intense than the first and with more semen than before. She was fascinated that a man could have a multiple orgasm and felt really good about her new skills. I had only had this happen once in 40 years previously but now it happens about every other orgasm I am allowed. So we both are enjoying the mind blowing orgasms we are having and she likes this new aspect of our sex life. This in turn has given her more confidence to assert her leadership in our marriage. I think that even without a FLR, she would want to keep the teasing and denial sex. However, the T&D seems to naturally lead to a FLR as when I am horny I do everything she asks me to do and volunteer to do a lot more.