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Pretense is a powerful tool because it can be used to convince someone they are the person they claim to be. With this, they can trick the victim into doing things he/she might not have done if they knew the person's true identity.
Author: SamIAm 2018-01-12 12:32:55   
For most men, to be in an FLR would probably require them to give up something. However, for men insterested in FLR like myself, they really aren't giving up anything because this is what they desire. In fact, in an FLR, they are gaining.
Author: SamIAm 2018-01-12 12:29:39   
To create a good relationship, the partners must have complete trust in one another and respect each other's choices as they should expect the choices to benefit their relationship and not be centered around selfishness.
Author: SamIAm 2018-01-12 12:28:15   
I think FLR women are mostly looking for control of themselves, which is why they desire a partner that is always helping them grow. FLR women don't want to spend all of their time strictly controlling their partner; they want control over their own lives, and a submissive partner helps accomplish this goal.
Author: SamIAm 2018-01-12 12:27:17   
My bad behavior I am currently correcting is to decrease my masturbation habit. Instead of fantasizing, I have lately been trying to improve myself in all aspects of my life (education, fitness, etc.)
Author: SamIAm 2018-01-12 12:24:41   
I think the best approach for introducing a partner to FLR is the reasoned and informed approach. It is not necessary to talk a lot. Present a few facts and have research to present to her to back you up. She will need time to digest the information and hearing a bunch of facts or figures will not impress her or convince her. But in reading materials available on line or in book form will give her the opportunity to see the benefits for her. Make this about her and not about your fantasies.
Author: Simmer51 2018-01-05 00:05:41   
It depends what level a woman wants to reach, I do think a Flr woman, does want the recognition that this is where the relationship is going, it is a Flr relationship, its out in the open and this is the lifestyle that we are following,its not pretend but real.
Author: And123 2018-01-03 10:47:00   
My attitude needs to be more directed to how to please a woman, thinking about her needs before mine,her wants before mine and putting my own desires to the back to please a woman
Author: And123 2018-01-03 10:43:38   
Pretense is a powerful tool in manipulation. If you pretend to do something or want something or be someone you are actually telling a lie about yourself. The internet is full of pretenders. a. Be real but don’t give up personal information until you feel safe b. If any woman asks for money report them, this is about relationships not services c. Trust comes from being as real as you can while protecting yourself
Author: Mark J 2017-12-03 00:19:17   
You will win a FLR woman the same way you win any woman by being yourself. Men don’t give up anything for FLR. The reason is “you don’t have anything to start with that you can lose it” – men are nowhere with FLR now. FLR men are gaining in a big way by getting 70% more than they have now; women gain to too - so align with where women are because it is a win win. Then give her the best experience possible and watch things grow.
Author: Mark J 2017-12-03 00:17:47   
When you enter a relationship where ‘you being you’ is a benefit to your mate and vice versa you have what everyone wants, a soul mate or at least a good fit. FLR women want a wonderful successful relationship and they won’t be able to see that in any man who “just wants to be what she wants.
Author: Mark J 2017-12-03 00:14:00   
FLR women want control that other women may not. They want to lead. FLR women will want to choose a man who fits what they are looking for.
Author: Mark J 2017-12-03 00:12:30   
FLR as a lifestyle choice remains a social experiment right now. Because of FLR dark there are many skeptics and the 50-60% of men trolling for kinky sex makes some women use a magnifying glass to examine the subject. Think about women as leaders in a positive light for a moment, and then consider the images you have seen in FemDom or internet porn. Get it? FLR is tainted by the behavior of men (yes of course a few women participate in the porn too). Because modern FLR is new and tainted the behavior of men is doubly important and women know this.
Author: Mark J 2017-12-03 00:09:38   
Always true. The truth will always find a way to illuminate itself. Honesty and integrity are always the most virtuous route in any relationship.
Author: Dvbvalpha123 2017-11-29 15:59:15   
I don't think that's necessarily true. In any balanced relationship, there is always give and take. Some things are given up for the betterment of the relationship, However, what is received should be far greater.
Author: Dvbvalpha123 2017-11-29 15:58:15   
I am being open minded about all things. The worst thing a person can be is closed off by new ideas. Of course, being kind, let the little things go by, respectful and above all else a good communicator.
Author: Dvbvalpha123 2017-11-29 15:56:58   
I think every woman is different in how they approach this. What is right for 1 Woman, may not be right for another. At the end of the day, a confident, intelligent, savvy Woman will know in her heart what areas she wants to control and which one's are not right for her.
Author: Dvbvalpha123 2017-11-29 15:55:48   
I am working on not worrying so much about finding the right FLR. I know in time it will be presented to me they way it's supposed to. Rushing something this important is not a good thing for both parties involved.
Author: Dvbvalpha123 2017-11-29 15:54:19   
No point not being yourself, in the long run even if you dont get caught out, you will never be happy. If i am not happy, neither will she.
Author: Pj1976bj 2017-11-05 22:46:23   
I dont think i need to defend it, sure men can give up control etc ut these are things he wishes to give up in order to achieve something else.
Author: Pj1976bj 2017-11-05 22:45:14   

 

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