Why is FemDom destructive to female led relationships and men?

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Why is FemDom destructive to female led relationships and men?

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The leading woman has the opportunity of using her man in any way she sees fit for her enjoment and pleasure. Us males depict FemDom for our pleasure our sense of erotic fun not hers.
Author: Happy56 2016-12-03 17:58:11   
It's unrealistic and portrays them as sleazy and weak, they are not. FemDom portrays women in a way they are not comfortable with. Women do want to lead, command and even have men as their slaves on demand but FemDom is competing with your woman´s desire to lead.
Author: Alpha4Life 2016-11-04 01:27:59   
Women are naturally dominant. Thus, she shouldn't feel pressured, her natural leadership and authority flows whenever She's ready
Author: AtHerheels 2016-10-30 15:50:02   
I'm not sure how to answer this correctly. I think it's implying FemDom is some sort of dominatrix outlook which can be anything from ridiculous looking to farcical. I sometimes feel one or both parties are emotionally damaged to have such fixations. With a FLR, you can be normal, mutually respectful and depending on which level you want from it, then look to focus on the woman's pleasure and satisfaction (and wellbeing)
Author: DorianGrey 2016-10-24 11:54:18   
Men are visual creatures who think with their little heads. FemDom is meant to trigger weak men into thinking with their little head for quick, temporary gratification and then get back to their everyday lives. FemDom is fantasy for those who only want to play and are weak in the mind. FLR is about living with your wife/partner 24/7 in a way that proves serving her is your gratification that lasts every second. FLR takes someone who has the strength and fortitude to realize that the best life is one where you love and serve your woman with your whole mind, body and soul.
Author: Thomas260 2016-10-13 15:49:12   
It creates a foreign requirement that women have to learn, which is itself rather poisonous and manipulative.
Author: PALearner218 2016-09-27 13:22:13   
Femdom is based on fantasy and the FLR is abou5 love, honer a giving oneself. Femdom is forced slavery and selfish desire. FLR is about surrender and loving the person as much as the surrender.
Author: Helpme555 2016-09-21 17:11:57   
FEMDON porn focuses on extremes. Unrealistic women dishing out brutal whippings/cannings, degrading acts, and humiliation. All this done with out any personal connection or real human interaction. Female is portrayed as a Sexy Sadistic Siren who enjoys meting out more and more pain, degradation and humiliation. Porn like this is devoid of any empathy or relationsahip.
Author: Wes777 2016-08-24 21:12:13   
FemDom is an unrealistic depiction of FLR. Its about quick fulfillment of a fantasy, not a sustainable relationship.
Author: Strong.follower56 2016-07-30 23:01:38   
FemDom portrays women in a way they are not comfortable with. Women do want to lead, command and even have men as their slaves on demand but FemDom is competing with your woman´s desire to lead.
Author: Juanissimo 2016-07-24 22:12:48   
FEMDOM, is not realistic and promotes a false sense of FLR. It is destructive by the portrayal of women that makes them uncomfortable.
Author: Greatday63 2016-07-24 20:41:31   
Femdom is destructive because it is a man's selfish interpretation of his fantasy. Femdom is about the man and not the woman. FLR is about the woman.
Author: Chris4flr 2016-05-24 10:54:19   
Because it leads to the humiliation of the man and he cannot be truly part of a solid relationship
Author: Leftygood 2016-03-27 18:42:48   
FemDom seems primarily concerned with sexual fantasies and roleplay scenarios as the foundation of a relationship. FLR is more about forging strong bonds, to nurture love for a long and happy relationship with the desire to grow to grow emotionally and spiritually.
Author: SterlingServer 2016-02-29 16:57:03   
It seems to invole the development oof preconceived ideas about what all women should want rather than what a specific woman desires.
Author: Emserves 2016-02-27 20:44:40   
Femdom is again another version of fantasy . Where as I believe FLR is real , I also believe that femdom is a mere fantasy .
Author: Sandy_2 2015-12-10 05:03:43   
Femdom is not the same as an FLR which a lot of people make the confusion. Femdom makes it look like women are in charge but it is the man that is getting everything out of it.
Author: Traceur459 2015-11-28 17:42:34   
FemDom is an oxymoron. it is not about the empowerment of women, but men playing out their own fantasies. The "slaves" are really the ones in charge not the women that is being exploited for their entertainment.
Author: Rogue38 2015-11-21 21:58:25   
Because femdom is in the fantasy world and woman and FLR are in the real world! The question answered itself!
Author: Heartandsoul297 2015-11-18 10:39:26   
FemDom is restricting women from leading their way. there are enough societal pressures on women to act a certain way and FemDom puts additional pressures on leading.
Author: Bobbie 1964 2015-10-17 11:42:41   

 

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