Why is FemDom destructive to female led relationships and men?

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Why is FemDom destructive to female led relationships and men?

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FemDom beings a bad name to a healthy relationship that is FLR. A FLR is a a nurturing relationship for mutual good and FemDom essentially goes against its very core.
Author: Adrean 2016-02-05 13:53:53   
Femdom is again another version of fantasy . Where as I believe FLR is real , I also believe that femdom is a mere fantasy .
Author: Sandy_2 2015-12-10 05:03:43   
Femdom is not the same as an FLR which a lot of people make the confusion. Femdom makes it look like women are in charge but it is the man that is getting everything out of it.
Author: Traceur459 2015-11-28 17:42:34   
FemDom is an oxymoron. it is not about the empowerment of women, but men playing out their own fantasies. The "slaves" are really the ones in charge not the women that is being exploited for their entertainment.
Author: Rogue38 2015-11-21 21:58:25   
Because femdom is in the fantasy world and woman and FLR are in the real world! The question answered itself!
Author: Heartandsoul297 2015-11-18 10:39:26   
FemDom is restricting women from leading their way. there are enough societal pressures on women to act a certain way and FemDom puts additional pressures on leading.
Author: Bobbie 1964 2015-10-17 11:42:41   
I get it. You guys at aboutflr.com really, really, REALLY hate FemDom which, if I understand correctly, you define as the commercialization of the sexual aspect of an female led relationship. By focusing on sex it trivializes all other aspects of a relationship. Is this any different than using sex to sell any other product? In my opinion, it is about as destructive to a good FLR as Hooters is destructive to fine dining. I'm not about to give up the pleasures of the second for the titillation of the first. (pun intended of course)
Author: CactusGerry 2015-10-11 05:07:38   
Femdom is a short term fantasy, it is so unrealistic, it talks about men limits and of those who has no limits? how can one have no limits, this is where its is unrealistic, you need respect in your relationship femdom shows no respect
Author: Betamann 2015-09-07 07:57:10   
porn give men a unrealistic view of FLR and women in general.It undermines what FLR women are trying to do for us as men.
Author: Ryan5248 2015-08-11 08:39:05   
FemDom as portrayed by porn sets expectations as to how Women should lead. However, it should be about how your Woman wants to lead. Not a fantasy.
Author: Bestbreeches 2015-07-27 15:36:19   
FemDom is the extreme form of fantasy of FLR. It destroys a woman's confidence and that's the total opposite of one of the aspects of being in a FLR. The woman should be loved, cherished and served by not in a way that makes her feel bad about it.
Author: Wayne_j43 2015-07-05 15:06:33   
FEmdom is fantasy fulfillment, not FLR
Author: Mario4Level3 2015-06-25 19:09:03   
FemDom can be a dynamic that means so many things. Unfortunately the way it is too often portrayed in porn is about degrading the submissive or addressing them as subhuman or not worthy of respect. It degrades the idea of forming a bond built on consent and and mutual desire. It is possible to want to serve, submit, please and obey while still maintaining the respect and care of the dominant.
Author: 2obeyYou 2015-06-06 20:13:10   
For the woman in my life, it will be natural for her to lead, as and when She feels the desire to do so, and I will respect her for her judgement and authority. The pretend pro-Femdom, is not emotionally involved and is only there as play figure for money and nothing else.
Author: Edward John 2015-04-02 06:30:05   
FemDom is an industry catering to the males need of porn. I myself went down this path only to find emptiness and no true relationships. Although BDSM may have its part in the FLR relationship, it is NOT the FLR relationship. My life has become more enhanced by surrendering my control first emotionally and mentally and last physically. That is just the opposite of how the FemDom relationship seems to work. And honestly, with FemDom, once the physical scenerio has been completed there seems to be a lack of desire to follow through with the mental and emotional. This is only my humble experience and opinion though.
Author: Dufferdavej 2015-03-01 18:24:06   
It is more of a slave relation. True strong woman still want a good strong not a slave. Other woman that would want to be a leader can be hurt by this type of woman as men see them.
Author: 1goodguy2u 2015-02-22 00:32:04   
it is an odd women that would be separated from a nurturing attitude and assume a FemDom relationship and be comfortable with roles portrayed in BDSM relationships. So asking one to perform those acts is demeaning of her nature. For the male while it could be a fantasy to have a women dominate in a BDSM or FemDom manner, does not make men better. How can breaking down the male be sustainable in a long term relationship. So at other extreme it is an odd man that would really want to be in a BDSM and FemDom relationship full time. Male service of spouse is more of a balancing of the scales for what has been expected from women in past. Also at times the traditional roles do not work. Each should do what is in their nature and what can be best for relationship.
Author: Imsc30 2015-01-27 21:35:15   
I do not want to compete, I want to submit and make her happy, and thus myself by doing anything she asks if I can be her subservient husband. I will be so nice and friendly and love her up
Author: Dannyseeksflr 2014-12-31 14:47:22   
I imagine if you are just searching for a quick fix then femdom is for you. If you truly want to live and have a loving relationship where she rules not only sex but other aspects of your life too then FLR is where you need put your energy
Author: JC800000 2014-12-07 22:03:47   
Femdom is based on commercial interest and fetishes and is pushing into the extreme, where there is no intimacy. Femdom is not what woman want, and there is no clear path and is destructive.
Author: Spifff 2014-12-07 10:36:37   

 

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