Why is FemDom destructive to female led relationships and men?

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Why is FemDom destructive to female led relationships and men?

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The minority (40-50%) of women who want to lead could probably benefit from successful role models. But to the best of my knowledge, FemDom personas would be of limited use as role models, being based on male fantasy. A woman's desire to lead carries with it a need to be followed and supported by a gentleman or perhaps a number of FLR type men. FemDom fantasy characters divert male support and submission.
Author: David Jeeves 2017-09-14 11:21:25   
FemDom is prominently based on sexual desire of men and the fantasy of men resulting in receipt of sexual service for the male.
Author: JPM1971 2017-08-16 01:14:20   
It is destructive because it is a complete misrepresentation of what a flr is. Love and understanding are a large part of flr.
Author: JackStephen 2017-07-01 06:23:02   
FemDom portrays women in a way they are not comfortable with. Women do want to lead, command and even have men as their slaves on demand but FemDom is competing with your woman´s desire to lead.
Author: Barry66 2017-06-26 16:07:36   
FemDom - or at least the porn industry portrayal of FemDom - primarily focuses on exploring kinks and extreme sexual practises. While BDSM activities may be perfectly acceptable in some Female led relationships, they should not be confused with being the foundation for a committed loving monogamous FLR.
Author: SterlingServer 2017-06-22 19:08:58   
The Femdom which is awesome to begin with don't let me discredit her ability her looks her motivation it's not for me to interpret or even decide about the fate of her and her place in this journey I think it's awesome but I don't believe she ever goes beyond that's Circle that never ending merry go round And I believe that's a good place to be but I don't know how they can sustain it without going Beyond the element of p*** ideals as the superior level I believe that's an illusion and if she can encompass that level into the levels ahead of her she will become even a better lady and have much much more fulfillment of her inner desires
Author: Flrjer 2017-05-07 06:12:05   
FemDom plays to a man's fantasies, and doesn't teach him to understand and seek to meet her needs. In FLR, he works to understand her needs and desires, then work to meet them without compulsion.
Author: Newmilleniumguy 2017-04-28 18:03:56   
FemDom is actually a commercial intity of the porn industry and displays the FLR on the dark side, and does nothing to stimulate the traits of a healthy Femal Led Relationship.
Author: Mikkiservlacy 2017-04-15 12:23:12   
FLR is not nevessarily into BDSM. Therefore Femdom may not be the right approach. Femdom is strictly into BDSM and kinks, whil FLR is not
Author: Porroland 2017-04-14 13:19:14   
The role of FemDom is a temporary fix with men that want a fast pleasure searving and waiting til the next time the urge, it is not real or beneficial to the Ladies
Author: Moto Steve 2016-12-31 15:37:58   
FemDom typically results in problems for FLR because it becomes about the desires of the submissive. Far too often, it results in the submissive partner "topping from the bottom".
Author: HunterK901 2016-12-23 15:15:16   
The leading woman has the opportunity of using her man in any way she sees fit for her enjoment and pleasure. Us males depict FemDom for our pleasure our sense of erotic fun not hers.
Author: Happy56 2016-12-03 17:58:11   
It's unrealistic and portrays them as sleazy and weak, they are not. FemDom portrays women in a way they are not comfortable with. Women do want to lead, command and even have men as their slaves on demand but FemDom is competing with your woman´s desire to lead.
Author: Alpha4Life 2016-11-04 01:27:59   
Women are naturally dominant. Thus, she shouldn't feel pressured, her natural leadership and authority flows whenever She's ready
Author: AtHerheels 2016-10-30 15:50:02   
I'm not sure how to answer this correctly. I think it's implying FemDom is some sort of dominatrix outlook which can be anything from ridiculous looking to farcical. I sometimes feel one or both parties are emotionally damaged to have such fixations. With a FLR, you can be normal, mutually respectful and depending on which level you want from it, then look to focus on the woman's pleasure and satisfaction (and wellbeing)
Author: DorianGrey 2016-10-24 11:54:18   
Men are visual creatures who think with their little heads. FemDom is meant to trigger weak men into thinking with their little head for quick, temporary gratification and then get back to their everyday lives. FemDom is fantasy for those who only want to play and are weak in the mind. FLR is about living with your wife/partner 24/7 in a way that proves serving her is your gratification that lasts every second. FLR takes someone who has the strength and fortitude to realize that the best life is one where you love and serve your woman with your whole mind, body and soul.
Author: Thomas260 2016-10-13 15:49:12   
It creates a foreign requirement that women have to learn, which is itself rather poisonous and manipulative.
Author: PALearner218 2016-09-27 13:22:13   
Femdom is based on fantasy and the FLR is abou5 love, honer a giving oneself. Femdom is forced slavery and selfish desire. FLR is about surrender and loving the person as much as the surrender.
Author: Helpme555 2016-09-21 17:11:57   
FEMDON porn focuses on extremes. Unrealistic women dishing out brutal whippings/cannings, degrading acts, and humiliation. All this done with out any personal connection or real human interaction. Female is portrayed as a Sexy Sadistic Siren who enjoys meting out more and more pain, degradation and humiliation. Porn like this is devoid of any empathy or relationsahip.
Author: Wes777 2016-08-24 21:12:13   
FemDom is an unrealistic depiction of FLR. Its about quick fulfillment of a fantasy, not a sustainable relationship.
Author: Strong.follower56 2016-07-30 23:01:38   

 

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