Why is FemDom destructive to female led relationships and men?

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Why is FemDom destructive to female led relationships and men?

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FEMDON porn focuses on extremes. Unrealistic women dishing out brutal whippings/cannings, degrading acts, and humiliation. All this done with out any personal connection or real human interaction. Female is portrayed as a Sexy Sadistic Siren who enjoys meting out more and more pain, degradation and humiliation. Porn like this is devoid of any empathy or relationsahip.
Author: Wes777 2016-08-24 21:12:13   
FemDom is an unrealistic depiction of FLR. Its about quick fulfillment of a fantasy, not a sustainable relationship.
Author: Strong.follower56 2016-07-30 23:01:38   
FemDom portrays women in a way they are not comfortable with. Women do want to lead, command and even have men as their slaves on demand but FemDom is competing with your woman´s desire to lead.
Author: Juanissimo 2016-07-24 22:12:48   
FEMDOM, is not realistic and promotes a false sense of FLR. It is destructive by the portrayal of women that makes them uncomfortable.
Author: Greatday63 2016-07-24 20:41:31   
Femdom is destructive because it is a man's selfish interpretation of his fantasy. Femdom is about the man and not the woman. FLR is about the woman.
Author: Chris4flr 2016-05-24 10:54:19   
Because it leads to the humiliation of the man and he cannot be truly part of a solid relationship
Author: Leftygood 2016-03-27 18:42:48   
FemDom seems primarily concerned with sexual fantasies and roleplay scenarios as the foundation of a relationship. FLR is more about forging strong bonds, to nurture love for a long and happy relationship with the desire to grow to grow emotionally and spiritually.
Author: SterlingServer 2016-02-29 16:57:03   
It seems to invole the development oof preconceived ideas about what all women should want rather than what a specific woman desires.
Author: Emserves 2016-02-27 20:44:40   
Femdom is again another version of fantasy . Where as I believe FLR is real , I also believe that femdom is a mere fantasy .
Author: Sandy_2 2015-12-10 05:03:43   
Femdom is not the same as an FLR which a lot of people make the confusion. Femdom makes it look like women are in charge but it is the man that is getting everything out of it.
Author: Traceur459 2015-11-28 17:42:34   
FemDom is an oxymoron. it is not about the empowerment of women, but men playing out their own fantasies. The "slaves" are really the ones in charge not the women that is being exploited for their entertainment.
Author: Rogue38 2015-11-21 21:58:25   
Because femdom is in the fantasy world and woman and FLR are in the real world! The question answered itself!
Author: Heartandsoul297 2015-11-18 10:39:26   
FemDom is restricting women from leading their way. there are enough societal pressures on women to act a certain way and FemDom puts additional pressures on leading.
Author: Bobbie 1964 2015-10-17 11:42:41   
I get it. You guys at aboutflr.com really, really, REALLY hate FemDom which, if I understand correctly, you define as the commercialization of the sexual aspect of an female led relationship. By focusing on sex it trivializes all other aspects of a relationship. Is this any different than using sex to sell any other product? In my opinion, it is about as destructive to a good FLR as Hooters is destructive to fine dining. I'm not about to give up the pleasures of the second for the titillation of the first. (pun intended of course)
Author: CactusGerry 2015-10-11 05:07:38   
porn give men a unrealistic view of FLR and women in general.It undermines what FLR women are trying to do for us as men.
Author: Ryan5248 2015-08-11 08:39:05   
FemDom as portrayed by porn sets expectations as to how Women should lead. However, it should be about how your Woman wants to lead. Not a fantasy.
Author: Bestbreeches 2015-07-27 15:36:19   
FemDom is the extreme form of fantasy of FLR. It destroys a woman's confidence and that's the total opposite of one of the aspects of being in a FLR. The woman should be loved, cherished and served by not in a way that makes her feel bad about it.
Author: Wayne_j43 2015-07-05 15:06:33   
FEmdom is fantasy fulfillment, not FLR
Author: Mario4Level3 2015-06-25 19:09:03   
For the woman in my life, it will be natural for her to lead, as and when She feels the desire to do so, and I will respect her for her judgement and authority. The pretend pro-Femdom, is not emotionally involved and is only there as play figure for money and nothing else.
Author: Edward John 2015-04-02 06:30:05   
FemDom is an industry catering to the males need of porn. I myself went down this path only to find emptiness and no true relationships. Although BDSM may have its part in the FLR relationship, it is NOT the FLR relationship. My life has become more enhanced by surrendering my control first emotionally and mentally and last physically. That is just the opposite of how the FemDom relationship seems to work. And honestly, with FemDom, once the physical scenerio has been completed there seems to be a lack of desire to follow through with the mental and emotional. This is only my humble experience and opinion though.
Author: Dufferdavej 2015-03-01 18:24:06   

 

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