I like the thought of punishing him? - What women say about female led relationships

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I like the thought of punishing him? - What women say about female led relationships

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28% 14% 58%
In Some Ways No Yes

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Most women like the thought of punishing their man. The follow up question is how? Is this physical, mental, financial????. Punishment is part of the mans fantasy of control. If she can punishment and does then she is in control because he "must" submit to punishment. After all the greater always punishes the lessor - so he thinks
Author: Victor 2011-01-06 19:49:40

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Sometimes I think that the mere threat of punishment would be satisfying if I were in a FLR say in or between levels 3 and 4...but there would have to be a real punishment(physical) at some point ,a point of reference to provide fear. I feel the use of corporal punishment to a submissive male creates an attitude of respect towards the female, a reality that a male can get his mind around as he is attuned to violence and it seems real to him where as more subtle forms of punishment confuse and irritate him
Author: Gunther 2014-09-04 18:42:19
I cant speak for women. I can understand that submitting to our mates request or demands continues to support our chosen life style.
Author: Guest 2013-01-09 19:39:36
I am new to this lifestyle....well I've taken about a year to "come out" to my wife...and she's still wrapping her brain around it. I have learned a lot in the last year. I'm sure we have all seen the online..."material" that depicts wicked wives punishing their submissive husbands. I know I have and yes I find it pretty exhillerating. I also know through trial and error and some deep soul searching that this is not very realistic. While I agree that women like the IDEA of punishing their spouse in a playful way, most women don't want to ACTUALLY do it. The concept of punishment goes against women's upbringing. In some ways, I do agree that fostering a bit of a dominant mentality in women is healthy but I have detected a tendency of myself to attempt to direct my wife to punish me a certain way. This invariably turns her off and strains our relationship. It is SUPPOSED to be about her but it is a slippery slope before I start making it about me. I guess THIS is what I need to disclose to her....the fact that I have a tendency to attempt to top from bottom.
Author: Newsubhub 2013-09-10 13:26:07


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