I want to wear a chastity device? - What men say about female led relationships

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I want to wear a chastity device? - What men say about female led relationships

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Most men want to wear a chastity device in their female led relationships. The true control of sex. He cannot masturbate. How do women feel about that?
Author: Prof. Mike 2011-01-06 19:49:40

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The chastity device is essential to having a FLR relationship by the transfer of authority from a man to a woman. The restriction of the male member, the loss of control of access, the prevention of masturbation, and the denial of orgasms give a woman incredible power over a man - psychologically and physiologically.
Author: GeneWn 2012-05-17 05:07:52
I agree. Having been dominated my whole life by sexual sensations, a womans total control over my penis is incredible humbling to me. It totally focuses me on her. She can punish me whenever she feels I deserve it. Driven as I always have been by the physical manifestation of my manhood, control of it definitly makes me a pretty submissive guy and one not above begging for my wiener to be let out. The toughest part is at night.
Author: Lawrence_2 2012-05-22 22:58:45
The use of a chastity device definitely enhances the "Female Led" part of the FLR. Her being in charge of my sexual releases puts her in the leadership position across other aspects of the relationship. For myself, I know that I'm much more attentive, agreeable, and obedient when this form of orgasm denial is used to assert her power in the relationship.
Author: NorthCa 2012-08-28 19:18:50
I had a chastity device at one time but I got rid of it. My wife didn't feel comfortable about it, but i want to appraoch her about it again and tell her that the thought of having her hold the key to my sexual pleasure, and for me to focus completely on her, is arousing to me. It shows me my obedience and loyalty to her and it also shows me that she loves me enough to keep me from giving into self stimulation.
Author: Cook2012 2012-12-29 19:39:34
Chastity devices are more of a fantasy item for me, though I do have one. They tend to be uncomfortable for long term wear. However, I think it is important for the dominant person in the relationship to have access to this training device when she wants, and for whatever term she feels is appropriate for punishment or training. I have not read the chastity training guide but plan to in the near future.
Author: Dashro23 2013-12-01 09:56:25
I have purchased a chastity device and have started to wear for my wife. She thinks it is a litle strange. How can I get her to warm up to the idea? This will be a great benifet for her. I wish she would take control of me.
Author: Jack58 2015-02-08 15:33:47
I think that chastity devices have a lot of fantasy appeal for men, but frankly, I question whether they undermine a true FLR. Trust should be the foundation of the relationship. If the woman is forced to use a device because she cannot trust the man to follow her direction, I question how committed he is to the concept of FLR.
Author: Jimmysquest 2015-05-22 23:27:32

 

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