Jimmy, The request for $50 clearly shows that this man is a scammer who is looking to take advantage of several naive men and then delete his profile, replacing it with a new one. Professional Dominas do not typically charge $50 for “to show your serious”. They usually charge $100-150 for a 30-minute conversation and $200-250 for a 1-hour phone chat. This is their job, and their rates are often even lower than those for phone sex! If you want to meet someone and they ask you for money, I wouldn’t recommend meeting with such a partner. However, there might be a situation where a real woman wouldn’t want to waste her time on you if she doesn’t see a future with you. If you’re unable to effectively communicate your worth to a potential partner who receives many other offers , the likelihood of them wanting to meet with you is slim.