From the completely uninitiated, I have this to offer from the text,”Surrender, Submit,Serve Her” by Key Barret. Certainly worth read,particularly in your situation. She recommends a regularly scheduled Command and Control meeting. Just as it sounds, the two of you, discuss how last period. Performance notes, work loads specific issues feelings,inability to perform etc.This is the meeting where you discuss and correct the issues that are derailing your process. Notably his input is valid here but SHE is undisputably in control. he recognizes this and speaks only in tones of deference and the utmost respect as your QUEEN deserves. Additionally now would be the time to evaluate failures and consequences. The CNC meeting is an opportunity for him to renew his vows to his Queen.
At both the opening and closing of the CNC to formalize and remind us of our positions. A little ritual helps to set the tone.
Congratulations on getting to you present point and Best of luck in your future
