I haven’t had the chance still to look into the videos you mentioned, I’ll admit I’ve been a bit lazy. I’ve kinda given up searching because of the amount of scams or a real findom ignoring me when I mention I’m not into it until a genuine connection has been made. I feel like I’d have better luck looking for a vanilla relationship then later bringing up a transition to an FLR. I’m conflicted though because that feels manipulative and untruthful. I guess I’m finally replying to say I’m gonna watch those videos now haha. I hope all has been well with you and everyone else. Hopefully everyone has had better luck than me 😅. Thank you for starting this thread and thanks to everyone for your input.