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  • #22149
    Bill
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    And I want a girlfriend and often feel like I cant have one. I’m making a stab in the dark that you dont know the value of being able to date at all, as opposed to my position of having to kiss dating goodbye until or unless a woman takes a shine to me despite (or maybe because) I need a woman to lead in conversations, even.

    #22155
    Ilovecolors
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    I’m a woman it should be easy for me to get a boyfriend.

    #22170
    Bill
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    Well, there you go 🙂 I mean that while you may be going through a dry spell, you indicate from your own words that you potentially have a lot of prospects. See what I did there? 🙂 For you the sky is the limit. Because the socialization process was aborted for me early on, I’m not in a position to go on dates, period, let alone talk to women unless they take an interest in me in probably daily life, which is ALSO a problem, since socialization is evidently key to working as well. So what are you complaining about?

    #22178
    Ilovecolors
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    That I probably can’t find a boyfriend.

    #22186
    FlaFLR
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    Are you a Dominant Lady that really wants a FLR? If you are then the numbers are in your favor, there are way more submissive men looking for a FLR than there are Dominant Ladies looking for a FLR. So the odds are in your favor. There are more websites than this that are FLR/ FemDom oriented.

    #22209
    Bill
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    Maybe I should ask the obvious question (if that’s alright(?)): How long have you been single?

    #22250
    Ilovecolors
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    As long as I can remember probably.

    #22273
    Bill
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    I’ve been single for nearly six years now. That’s because I wasnt raised to date others or make arrangements to do things with others in general. Those are things that collectivists do. Collectivists arent the only people in life. There are those, like me, who believe that doing things with others is based on the natural course of events. If someone has car trouble, for example, and I know something about cars (I dont), then there might be a reason to involve myself with that person. Otherwise they have their lives and I have mine. Does that make sense?

    #22282
    Ilovecolors
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    But I still want to date.

    #22286
    Bill
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    May I ask you a personal question? You dont have to answer this, but maybe it would help shed some light on things for you (and me too). There is a clear dividing line between those who favor group-protection (the majority) and those who favor self-protection. I’m in the latter category. Are you as well? Do you identify with being a classical or traditional woman who looks to a man for direction, security and love? I look to a strong and responsible woman who has a sense of authority for direction, security and love. You could say that I’m the male equivalent of a classical or traditional woman. That means that I more or less have to wait until the right woman discovers me, and wants to court, romance and bed me as though I were a woman. I cant pose and pretend in order to date or make my way in society. If there’s nothing i can do, then there’s nothing i can do, whether i like it or not.

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