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A short bio: I am a 58 year old lifestyle Dominant Jewish woman (been Dominant all my life, since before I had words for it really) in Brookline, seeking a jewish (ideally) male sub, age 48-60. I would consider someone who is not jewish, but would prefer that he has had prior exposure t.o Judaism and, perhaps more importantly, Jewish culture. I seek 24/7 submission on a psychological level and physical submission at my whim. Of course, that is something that is built gradually over time in a relationship, once trust has been established. Mine is a loving, nurturing Domination. I am not a sadist, but am very strict. That is, I don´t believe in pain for the sake of pain alone, but I do believe in discipline and training, and there is certainly pain inherent in that. I am a firm believer in the value of domestic discipline, principally otk spanking with a hairbrush and corner time. I´m not really into anything extreme. My sub is my treasure and I want to make sure he is well taken care of. I am very sensual and enjoy many kinds of play. But I want to be clear that play (lovely as it might be) is just that... play. It is not the most important aspect of a D/s relationship. For me this is truly a lifestyle and not just a sexual preference or on-again-off-again thing. It is pervasive throughout my life with my sub. I am very private and monogamous. I do not engage in groups or public play, and insist on a completely vanilla exterior. My sub is mine. I choose not to share him and prefer that his attentions and adoration be centered on me. When I relax: Massages, travel, crossword puzzles, more or less a movie junkie, watching TV, being with people I care about, love naps with the afternoon sunlight streaming in Hobbies I enjoy: Traveling, spending time with friends, movies, theater, cooking, dining out When with friends: We went to a small Spanish restaurant and had tapas and sangria. We were a group of women who actually work together separately in consulting engagements now and then but who have become very close friends and we get together once a year or so to catch up and spend some time together.
Why I want FLR: I am good at being head of household. I am a very strict disciplinarian and, for the right man, this can be very freeing and mutually satisfying. I get great pleasure out of making sure my partner gets what he needs to be whole and happy but it is I who decides what that is. The perfect FLR man: I am seeking a man who is truly a pleaser....someone who finds that he derives much of his own fulfillment from pleasing his Domme, and from giving over control to her. I am not interested in some kind of mindless slave, but rather someone who is a person in his own right. He should have a mind and a sense of humor, and should not be afraid to use them at the appropriate times. I am looking for someone who will flourish under my guidance, not who seeks to lose himself in me. He needs to be able to be everything that I need and want him to be: my best friend, my lover, my houseboy, my personal servant, my sexual slave and more. How I feel about men in FLR: In the outside world men are not rewarded for being followers - they are socialized to believe that being a leader is best. If that´s what works for him in the outside world, that is fine. But I know there are men who long to be submissive and even if they have found a way to manage the outside world successfully, it doesn´t mean that it doesn´t sap their spirit in some very basic way. In general, I am not terribly interested in men who just follow blindly (and there are many of those) but rather a man who thinks for himself but chooses me as the one person to follow.
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