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Passive aggressive and willful acts come from assumption of control or the lack there of and lower needs not being met. An example might be when he wants to surrender but he asks for force help him. He needs control from you and he is willing to make changes. How does it work for you?
Author: Admin 2010-12-10 18:51:16    [reply]
One issue I see is his willingness to surrender/submit and the seemingly lask there of by women to want his surrender. Why is it that men want this perhaps 100 times more than women do?
Author: Admin 2010-12-12 09:22:41    [reply]
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Obedience seems the same as submission to me while surrender is a whole new ball game, any man who can surrender is special, most just make agreements and attempt to live up to them by obeying when required. It seems we all do this to some extent - you know like following laws. Guys are thought of as "over sexed" but I think that is not so of many of them, what they are really after is intimacy, connection and control. It just suits them. Lots of guys can lead, and so can lots of women, but many guys don't want to, sorry for the ramble.

Reply by: Amy Lynn 2010-12-29 16:58:16    [reply]
In management "Discipline As Punishment" does not seem to work very well. The magic come from a cooperation where the person sees values in what is being taken away, the person sees what is being done as fair, the person shows respect for those in authority and counter attacks are never allowed. This avoids the 5 deadly sins of employee discipline. I never tried to apply this to my relationships but it might work. Hope that helps!
Author: Guest 2011-01-27 18:10:40    [reply]
Surrender is thrilling for many - erotic and fulfilling - waxing poetic no? Well surrender is also the core of the servant. The soul of a servant wants to serve. They do it at work, at home, in their personal relationships.
Author: Guest 2011-01-29 06:38:02    [reply]
Yes I finally realized that I desire and want a strong controlling woman , however, seem so hard to find that woman . Not sure what to do I enjoying serving and pleasing but stuck in not finding that special woman
Author: Guest 2011-03-21 13:38:18    [reply]
Guest There are a lot of guys in that boat. We will try and fix that issue with introductions soon. For now join a MAG group, read the book "A Man's Guide to Introducing His Wife, Partner or Girlfriend to Female Led Relationship" avalable on this site to start preparing yourself for a longterm successful FLR.
Reply by: Randell 2011-03-21 16:11:59    [reply]
There are a lot of guys out there who are not really looking for submission or surrender they want to trade kinky sex for temporary cooperation if it is done their way which puts the women in a place of a whore. The man who does is really in an MLR where he is inventing work for the women even at the cost of the relationship.
Author: Guest 2018-03-12 23:42:30    [reply]

 

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