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The thought of pampering seems very romantic to me, anytime when one share their passion for the other it creates a event to remember.
Author: 2010-12-10 18:28:06 [reply]
Admin When I think about the word pampering, I want it defined. If it is trying to do my hair or bathe me, I have to be in the mood. Actually, I like to have someone bursh my hair but if I'm dressing for the day, don't bother me. I can enjoy time in the tub or the shower with a lover, but again, if I'm getting ready to leave the house... don't. Now, if pampering means that the male has taken care to see my clothes are clean and in the closet or drawer then that is different. I'm not particularly patient so there are things that I just go on and do for myself that kind of irritates me to wait so someone can "pamper" me. I definitely want to have passion between myself and my significant other. Probably one of the reasons I like FLR is that I want to make the advance for that event. Again, no patience.
Reply by: 2011-02-01 14:17:17 [reply]
For Valentines day, do the flowers but take the day before to take some of her chores off her hands and let her enjoy a bubble bath - leave her to her peace. She will remember it.
Author: 2011-02-05 16:58:55 [reply]
I recommend a fire with some wine and munchies. A nice soft feather pad right in front of the fire. Get her naked slowly with nice kisses and soft genuine touching and spend time kissing each other everywhere.
Author: 2011-02-11 10:03:36 [reply]
I have been used in my FLR to pamper my female partner with a fine bath in the tube after a fine dinner which I prepared with candle-light in the evening and after her bath I was giving her a long and intense massage all over her body and then it was up to her to make her decisions. I was nothing but at her service as much and as long as she liked. After a hard day for a buinesswoman which I met at the door by kissing her feet it was relaxing for them. A lon massage of her whole body with a very fine oil is relaxing for every woman and I think they all like it. Quite often I was giving their feet and legs an intense and relaxing massage. And having been as a teenager over to England for school exchage I remember that my young landlady wanted me to masage her feet every evening when she came from her office job. She loved to watch tv and getting a massage for her feet and legs. So I think English ladies seem to like it.
Author: 2012-02-21 11:06:08 [reply]
What my beloved wife likes is actions to produce memorable moments that show her the depth and strength of my love for her and my focus on her. It pleases her to see that I have been creative and devoted time and effort to producing something that is just for her. Like composing a poem. Or buying something that shows thoughtfulness (doesn't always have to be expensive). Or finding a song on YouTube that says something special, not any old love song but one that includes a phrase or image that relates to some specific private moment that has meaning only for her and me. Or designing an evening together that shows attention to detail, she likes and notices the details. She also likes to be able to tell her friends so that they see how much she is loved by me. Perhaps too much is made of pampering on this page. While I love to pamper and she likes to accept this when in the mood, I don't think it is top of her list compared with the other things I have mentioned. Pampering is almost more like her treat for me when she is happy because I made some memorable moments for her.
Author: 2012-10-06 23:45:27 [reply]
Afterthought: maybe it is important for women that the memorable moments are personal and done in private but they are not sexual. I think that pleases my wife, maybe because it shows her that they are about her and my feelings for her not about my own desires. Perhaps this also helps her to enjoy sharing these moments with her friends as well as enjoying the moments at the time. They leave lasting memories for her (and for me). I'd welcome any comments from women about whether this is accurate for them.
Author: 2012-10-06 23:57:48 [reply]