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Procrastination might come for many reasons, like it is too big so I don't know where to start, or I am just not interested so I can't get motivated. Since people do things they are interested in, how do you deal with issues of procrastination where he is uninterested?
Author: 2010-12-10 18:16:55 [reply]
We are having a hard time dealing with my procrastination. I just am not into this idea like he wants me to be. Is there any way that we can have a happy medium where I am not feeling like my relationships is completely over the way it was?
Author: 2011-01-01 16:07:31 [reply]
by designing how thing will work in formal written form no one needs worry about procrastination because both know how things are supposed to go and who is responsible for what?
Reply by: 2011-01-01 17:24:35 [reply]
Delilah New reader here. Found site about one week ago and have consumed a lot. Delilah, you sound like my wife. I am running in circles and she is just not that interested. The simple answer to you, the thing I crave the most, is just a little acknowlegement. You do not have to raidcally change your relationship...just let me know that you appereciate my attention and let me rub your back while you give me direction, or "make me" get on my knees when I kiss you or slap me in the crotch when I don't do it the way you would and you will be surprised. I will carry 90% of the weight, just let me know that you know I am doing so. Respectfully, gat1207
Reply by: 2011-03-01 09:36:21 [reply]
Gat1207 It is too often the case that men seeking FLR take the tact that I see in the words of your post. She might not want what you are offering, so figure out what does please her and do that. Praise will come when you are doing what she wants not what you want. If someone offered you a dead rat, said this is the best dead rat and it will do wonders for you, They said you'd love the dead rat and tried and tried to get you to love it too; it would still be a dead rat and not appealing to you. To win her become appealing to her. Growth in her interest will come when she is getting the benefits she wants not the ones you are offering. Get behind her, praise and appreciate everything she does for you and most of all don't force your fantasy on her.
Reply by: 2011-03-01 11:35:24
Procrastination all stems from self-worth. If your man does not feel motivated in your sexual relationship, there is a deep lingering problem that he must work on. Obviously, you can help by being a great confidante and inspiring him to work through his problems.
Author: 2011-01-26 13:03:09 [reply]
I think procrastination comes from being disconnected and not in the moment. Sometimes if comes from a job to big to begin. When we focus on now and one step at a time then we tend not to procrastinate
Author: 2011-01-27 17:38:29 [reply]
Randell Thank you. This is not FLR specific but it is really helpful general advice about an issue that affects me, including in FLR, much more than I would like.
Reply by: 2012-07-31 13:28:49 [reply]
Gat1207 Getting kinky sex and being in an FLR may not be the same thing. She may never "slap you in the crotch". Pretend for a second that you are a slave, everything is up to your MASTER and you must do what HE says. Your MASTER appreciate your good work but never tells you. It is the position of a servant to "serve" and up to the master/authority to appreciate when they want and how they want. If you become a slave you may not get anything you want. Now think like a woman, what is it she wants from you? Give her what she wants. So it is up to you to decide if you are playing around because you want your fantasy indulged or if you really are a servant in your heart and cannot live any other way. The damage you do to your relationship by pushing your fantasy may stop you from ever enjoying a moment of FLR. The beauty you enjoy from FLR will all come from your "changing your mind" to do those things attractive FLR men do.
Author: 2011-03-01 11:51:24 [reply]
What motivation techniques are best for dealing with his procrastination? The poll data says women see this as his biggest problem, it's certainly mine. The good article on Guided Motivation didn't include clear advice about handling procrastination. Are there specific motivational styles or triggers that are more effective than others?
Author: 2012-10-07 19:11:54 [reply]