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I am currently not in a relationship but female led relationships are something that I believe I would enjoy to the fullest. I wonder if there is a way you can tell that a man would be OK with female led relationships. What are the signs? Also, either you're in a FLR or you aren't but is there anything in between? I guess my question is, are their some aspects in your life that can be led by the female and some that aren't or is it an all or nothing type of deal?
Author: 2010-12-29 16:02:53 [reply]
Hi Vickie! I am no professional but from my understanding there are different levels of female led relationships. For example, it may be really low key which involves you taking some control and responsibility but not with everything and not going all the way. You then have your moderate level, formal level and lastly, extreme female leadership. This level 4 is basically where your man is your servant or slave. Bondage is a common practice at this level. To answer your question on signs that a man may be into FLR, I would say look for the signs that a man that likes it when you're in control and likes to be dominated. Seek out signs that will give you an idea such as does he do what you tell him? Does he let you be in control? I would personally read through the reasons why men want to be in a FLR and this will help you determine if a man wants that. If you have been dating someone for a while, you can always just ask them.
Reply by: 2010-12-29 16:10:24 [reply]
I'll best most guys wanting level 1-3 you'd never be able to pick out in a crowd, anyone wanting to be a slave is gonna be different
Reply by: 2010-12-29 16:33:22
VickieKS3 I'm not sure a person can tell from a couple of dates. I've known a few guys who could live the level 4 lifestyle very happily and you would never guess if you met them for dinner. However, if I give off the right signs or say a few things that would make them at least dream, eventually they would explore the possibility. I personally believe there are more men who would enjoy the FLR than the bossy male.
Reply by: 2011-02-01 10:43:57 [reply]
I agree with Susan completely. My husband has always appreciated it when I make decisions and has looked for me to ask to take over things at times. So when he asked for a FLR I wasn't too shocked. When you meet a guy and are on a date, I would look to see if he is going to argue with you over things, is he going to object if you pay, is he willing to let you make the decisions about the date.
Author: 2011-01-01 16:21:47 [reply]
I spent a couple of hours looking at FLR tonight and found most of what is on the web to be very poor content, lots of empty pages, copies articles and forums with the same old same old. This is refershing to think men actually are willing to learn to "follow" and women can practice leading. My guy is away seeing his family but when he comes back I am inspired to motivate him. Yummy! Thank you all for this website!!!
Author: 2011-07-30 22:54:03 [reply]
Is it easier for a woman to lead if she has a height advantage over the man, even due to heels?
Author: 2011-08-01 08:20:08 [reply]
My wife in heels is just about eye to eye with me. And when she is being assertive the height differene is irrelevant AJ
Author: 2014-04-25 18:30:55 [reply]
You can start by not using phrases such as "may I", "Could you please", "I request you". Instead use imperative sentence constructions. If he does the thing you tell him to, it is highly likely he has an inclination to FLR. While walking, talking etc. if he puts you first, it is a sign he wants you to lead. I, for example love it when a girl just tells me to do something an not ask me to do it. Height is a factor, but not always. My girlfriend is about 5 inches shorter than me but is really assertive. And it is really sexy.. she controlling a mane taller and physically stronger just by her words and gestures is very hot..
Author: 2018-01-16 11:25:38 [reply]