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I think people couple up because there is a similar emotional dynamic that the two share. They may be different or similar in many respects but the underlying emotional dynamics bring or chase couples away.
Author: 2018-02-16 13:56:19
People couple up to express the emotional need and desire to express love and companionship as humans. Another reason why people couple up is for the natural instinctual expressions of reproduction and body signaling for reproductive health etc. Lastly people couple up for a combination of loneliness, companionship, comradery, cooperation, teamwork, love, kindness, family etc are all a bundle of goals that happening at various points in a relationship. There for in conclusion I believe the reason(s) why people couple up into a relationship are varied greatly but revolve around a healthy instinctual and emotional necessity. Thank you for the question.
Author: 2017-11-08 20:30:59
I think for me it's being true to myself understanding the type of relationship I will be happiest in. I have tried the vanilla relationships and always felt something was missing.
Author: 2017-11-03 18:31:38
As awareness has changed and women have stepped out of the home their leadership ability is ever more noticeable and as a man incapable of a successful marriage or relationship I see things as I see them now supporting my mate in her efforts to take us where I can't
Author: 2017-10-24 20:50:24
Coupling ion a FLR seems like the final destination. It is a trust and bond as great as that at birth. We leave the birth bond and go out to the world. Coming back to FLR is like destiny.
Author: 2017-10-02 12:30:42
People couple up to better meet their own needs for food and shelter (we save a lot of money together). Coupling up increases safety and security. Being together fulfills needs for connection and belonging, sexual intimacy. Teamwork is possible in a variety of tasks and projects.
Author: 2017-09-15 15:24:11
Because it is the natural order, the woman teases and tantalises the man. Because of her feminine power his will is bent to her wishes.
Author: 2017-08-08 08:13:44
I have a better understanding of their relationship.So people can grow with love for each other . with a longer last partnership with each other
Author: 2017-07-09 00:07:47
Because they have a desired position in a healthy relationship that they know can't be achieved or expressed through a typical relationship dynamic.
Author: 2017-07-01 04:55:46
The life as we grow older seems to be more complex, only because we seem to slow down and take life at a much simpler pace. While we are young just so full of energy, the ability to handle manner tasks and issues in a flash. We don't even realize how life is passing us by at a different pace. So as we age we notice life is not a rapid fire obstacle course, but a pleasant journey. The quick responses we used to just spurt out and commence to action , was really just us controlling or what we thought was being in control. So for me complexity is releasing the control and submitting to someone else's thoughts. So the FLR lifestyle builds and supports my inner drive to relinquish control and trust in someone else to make decisions and life choices. The lady who always had a better view appreciates having the support and service of a well trained man. Life complexity seems much simpler as our communication develops and a understanding of authority is reached and grasped by both in the FLR relationship.
Author: 2017-05-12 19:57:50
Human beings are social animals and need to be part of a group. Only relatively recently, in our evolution, has society dictated that an 'intimate group' consists of a couple. So in answer;- We couple up to fit in with modern western societies expectations. Relationships in the past were far more fluid. Individuals were part of a close knit group, all of who were interdependent for physical survival and success in breeding.
Author: 2017-04-26 13:13:41
Security, pool resources, companionship, intimacy, safe sex.
Author: 2017-03-06 21:30:50
An FLR provides a better foundation and mutual understanding in which to build a relationship. It provides clear boundaries to the most important elements and discussion points of a relationship.
Author: 2017-01-03 09:49:32
Please allow me some crude words just once: each species couple up for reproducing, it's just the law of Nature. Then human beings add love and the will to build a family in a traditional way. Nowadays more often than not, this couple structure collapses because the sense of values decreases relentlessly. In that changing world however Women appear more and more as the guardian of these crucial values and as the stronger sex. Also no man can sort the best of himself without a Woman's help even in conventional relationships. That's why more and more men wish now to couple up in FLR as it offers the solid structure and values that both need for a better life.
Author: 2016-11-12 04:29:59
I think it's because both halves of the couple are happy to and open to exploring and nurturing a relationship based around FLR
Author: 2016-10-24 12:51:39
You can have all the fantasies you want, but they are just fantasies. They simply can't compare to actually serving a loving woman in a FLR.
Author: 2016-10-19 17:14:27
People want companionship not just friendship. They want the one person that opens up everything about themselves and someone they can express everything without judgement or regret.
Author: 2016-09-21 13:54:29
As we move through life we understand ourselves more. I think people on this site are very honest and have come to realise what they need to be fulfilled and therefore have sought and found this site in the hope finding that perfect partner.
Author: 2016-09-16 02:00:23
I think people couple in an FLR because they see it as a the best dynamic, meaning it suits their personalities and desires but also offers an alternative to our society's thoughtless sexism and and thoughtless alpha male posing. Some people see a FLR as a way to have better communication and less stress and arguing in their relationships.
Author: 2016-08-21 00:09:12
Coupling up in FLR is so satisfying when both parties are in tune with each other wishes and wants. Its so nice to give up control and obey and serve.
Author: 2016-05-14 14:09:24
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