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How can you improve your track record if you botched the job in the past? You get a new chance in relationships, how to you prepare the damage and start fresh?
Author: Max1985 2018-04-26 11:21:54   
One would do this by opening up and discussing what you have botched up. Her desire to accept the fact that you want to change would be evidence based. If she is assured that you are willing to change some form of chastisement may be in order. A lecture, corner time or a spanking would be some of the possibilities .
Author: Simmer51 2018-01-03 23:53:39   
A relationship of this nature is all new to me I have definitely botched the job in the past and the realization of that has led me here seeking a new and better wayv
Author: Igor2learn 2017-10-25 19:45:46   
There are a few things I have done in the past that I have repeated. This has caused arguing and stress in our life. I need to make my actions follow my words.
Author: LittleMiss-Hubby 2017-10-19 08:13:37   
I have a hard time seeing how track record applies in my case. I would be able to improve what I do and say in the present moment. The problems in our relationship have had almost 20 years to be established and get to the level they are today. Still, one day at a time, it might take that long to be rid of those problems completely. "With patience everything is possible."
Author: David Jeeves 2017-10-10 20:06:23   
If you have then identify what you did wrong and tell your new partner. Communication is always key in a relationship. Remember to strive for self improvement.
Author: JackStephen 2017-07-01 06:08:57   
Well as most I have failed at relationships. What I do to help me as I suffer from the loss of the relationship because of what I might have done. What I was guided to do was make a list of all the things you consider bad in your life or what needs to change in your life patterns. Then you make a list of all the good things in your life. Spend time thinking about these lists. Once you feel you have exhausted all the list potential. Try to put in a order of importance. then every day go over the list starting with the bad and finishing with the good. As I go through the bad I try to change one bad item at a time. Work on, like say fear of horses go pet a horse. I found in my evaluations there were some bad items but for the most part a lot more good than bad. So after about some time has passed and I work on my faults daily . I start to see that I am not all bad but there are areas I need to work on and improve. When a relationship arise use the past loss as a guide to a new and better relationship with someone else. Knowing that change happen you appreciate what you have and know it can change suddenly. Confidence in yourself and who you are will guarantee a rebound of success.
Author: Flrjer 2017-06-01 11:30:48   
Like I already wrote, in the past I did some mistakes. The first one was a kinky approach, it was repulsing for her. The second approach was similar to that suggested by this website, and it worked muche better, but I had a motivation loss cause of kinks and masturbation. Now I am learning from my mistakes and limiting my masturbation, as well as focusing more on doing the right things to please her and stimulates her dominant nature
Author: Gammagamma64 2016-09-06 05:09:37   
If she really loves you and you love her this should be easy but a much greater effort to never repeat the offense and actions that did the damage in the first place
Author: Lelandswede333 2016-03-29 05:38:39   
I should be apologetic for whatever bad happened in the past . I should vow hat I will never repeat the same mistake in future . He who stops being better stops being good .
Author: Sandy_2 2015-12-11 11:23:49   
I have started by being as open and honest as I can as I struggle to change. We are still in couple therapy.
Author: Baloo.1957 2015-07-19 11:49:17   
Try to learn it if you do not know how, try to like it if i do not like it and she likes it.
Author: Mario4Level3 2015-06-25 19:00:01   
'Tis better to avoid the damage, rather than to "prepare" it (a typo?) or repair it. The best way to improve one's track record is to consistently exceed expectations (but of course you run the risk of raising the bar too high to consistently meet it!)
Author: Mr.Bill 2015-04-28 17:11:07   
If you are committed to this type of life style, then read about it. Trust the woman you love to guide you. Ask questions, you will know its right.
Author: 1goodguy2u 2015-02-22 02:21:37   
By listening and learning the best i can. Reading so i can get the new rules and get a fresh start. When this chance come , not to let it escape and work more on it everyday
Author: Eric_vi 2014-09-04 11:13:57   
Do not carry the old track record into the new relationship. Even if it is the same relationship, doesn't make assumptions you will repeat. Have faith that you and your partner can learn from the past and it will happen.
Author: Davesma 2014-08-18 22:34:44   
you start to learn from your mistakes and not repeating them again and again . and after a while you get your confidence back .
Author: Michaelwarlock 2014-07-28 07:12:44   
remember what i did wrong, learn from my mistakes. read more from this site learn from this site listen and learn from the woman i love.
Author: Wannapleaser 2014-06-01 11:53:01   
I learn from the past and at the same time I don't allow the past rule me over and create fear for the future
Author: Dionn_4FD 2014-01-22 19:00:29   
Dionn_4FD you're absolutely right
Reply by: James 2017-09-21 18:14:28   
I was to excited abut finding AHF and and realizing that being submissive to my wife was what i desired all along. I pushed to hard and fast and it pushed her away.
Author: Subcaveman 2014-01-03 10:53:00   


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