Men don't give up anything in FLR as this is what they subconsciously yearn for. This is their desire and their hope, when they are getting this, there cannot lose.
Author: 2018-03-13 19:33:18
It is popwerful because it is possible to pretend to be what the other person desires. However in the long run a lack of congruence will reveal the person for what they are and both people will be unhappy.
Author: 2018-03-13 19:29:34
A woman is looking to control the man as this brings to her a freedom, and a confidence that might otherwise be lacking. With this control she can flourish, and with her flourishing, he will be happier.
Author: 2018-03-13 19:28:34
The essence of a goof relationship is communication, a flow of energy between the couple. He should be honest and open with his desires, and be ready to accept that she is in charge.
Author: 2018-03-13 19:27:43
I am correcting bad behaviours from indulgence: unhealthy eating, lifestyle. Not so much drinking, but more over indulgence. I have realised that life is short and it is time to live life well.
Author: 2018-03-13 19:27:24
Pretense is a powerful tool because it can be used to convince someone they are the person they claim to be. With this, they can trick the victim into doing things he/she might not have done if they knew the person's true identity.
Author: 2018-01-12 12:32:55
For most men, to be in an FLR would probably require them to give up something. However, for men insterested in FLR like myself, they really aren't giving up anything because this is what they desire. In fact, in an FLR, they are gaining.
Author: 2018-01-12 12:29:39
To create a good relationship, the partners must have complete trust in one another and respect each other's choices as they should expect the choices to benefit their relationship and not be centered around selfishness.
Author: 2018-01-12 12:28:15
I think FLR women are mostly looking for control of themselves, which is why they desire a partner that is always helping them grow. FLR women don't want to spend all of their time strictly controlling their partner; they want control over their own lives, and a submissive partner helps accomplish this goal.
Author: 2018-01-12 12:27:17
My bad behavior I am currently correcting is to decrease my masturbation habit. Instead of fantasizing, I have lately been trying to improve myself in all aspects of my life (education, fitness, etc.)
Author: 2018-01-12 12:24:41
I think the best approach for introducing a partner to FLR is the reasoned and informed approach. It is not necessary to talk a lot. Present a few facts and have research to present to her to back you up. She will need time to digest the information and hearing a bunch of facts or figures will not impress her or convince her. But in reading materials available on line or in book form will give her the opportunity to see the benefits for her. Make this about her and not about your fantasies.
Author: 2018-01-05 00:05:41
Pretense is a powerful tool in manipulation. If you pretend to do something or want something or be someone you are actually telling a lie about yourself. The internet is full of pretenders. a. Be real but don’t give up personal information until you feel safe b. If any woman asks for money report them, this is about relationships not services c. Trust comes from being as real as you can while protecting yourself
Author: 2017-12-03 00:19:17
You will win a FLR woman the same way you win any woman by being yourself. Men don’t give up anything for FLR. The reason is “you don’t have anything to start with that you can lose it” – men are nowhere with FLR now. FLR men are gaining in a big way by getting 70% more than they have now; women gain to too - so align with where women are because it is a win win. Then give her the best experience possible and watch things grow.
Author: 2017-12-03 00:17:47
When you enter a relationship where ‘you being you’ is a benefit to your mate and vice versa you have what everyone wants, a soul mate or at least a good fit. FLR women want a wonderful successful relationship and they won’t be able to see that in any man who “just wants to be what she wants.
Author: 2017-12-03 00:14:00
FLR women want control that other women may not. They want to lead. FLR women will want to choose a man who fits what they are looking for.
Author: 2017-12-03 00:12:30
FLR as a lifestyle choice remains a social experiment right now. Because of FLR dark there are many skeptics and the 50-60% of men trolling for kinky sex makes some women use a magnifying glass to examine the subject. Think about women as leaders in a positive light for a moment, and then consider the images you have seen in FemDom or internet porn. Get it? FLR is tainted by the behavior of men (yes of course a few women participate in the porn too). Because modern FLR is new and tainted the behavior of men is doubly important and women know this.
Author: 2017-12-03 00:09:38
Always true. The truth will always find a way to illuminate itself. Honesty and integrity are always the most virtuous route in any relationship.
Author: 2017-11-29 15:59:15
I don't think that's necessarily true. In any balanced relationship, there is always give and take. Some things are given up for the betterment of the relationship, However, what is received should be far greater.
Author: 2017-11-29 15:58:15
I am being open minded about all things. The worst thing a person can be is closed off by new ideas. Of course, being kind, let the little things go by, respectful and above all else a good communicator.
Author: 2017-11-29 15:56:58
I think every woman is different in how they approach this. What is right for 1 Woman, may not be right for another. At the end of the day, a confident, intelligent, savvy Woman will know in her heart what areas she wants to control and which one's are not right for her.
Author: 2017-11-29 15:55:48
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