Let`s discuss the slavish behavior many men express in seeking a goddess or mistress. What does that say about self-image and what does that do to how women see these men - take it from here guys.
Author: 2014-05-25 08:47:34
SusanM88 Hey, if a man subdues under the rules of a woman he gets plenty of power by the exuberance of social competence, caress, motherliness, elegance, erotic influence, practical reason and prudence that is due to the female in general. In a specific relationship it is important that you agree into the division of roles and into the supremacy of the woman, even if there are situations in which you dislike your decision, because the woman destroys your selfishness, diminishes your freedom, gives orders you have to follow or anything else. You must feel to be a part of or an energy support to your woman, and you have nothing of your own, but you are recreated in the potency of her and can see with proud that her glamour is based a little on your input. Why should you do so? Because the female leadership functions never by violence but by love, her punishment involves never reverence or hate but correction, her vision is much more holistic than the male interests, her overflow of attention makes the world better, especially in a relationship. So every man is best advised if he subordinates to a woman, who is able and decided to lead the relationship.
Reply by: Giovanni 2016-01-16 10:30:35
SusanM88 our behavior defines who we are. we need to always be respectful and courteous to Woman as they are supreme beings
Reply by: Jeffrey1966 2016-10-16 07:46:27
Your behavior reflects the type of person you are internally. And as such, if you hope and desire to be a good person and a valuable partner within a female led relationship, your behavior should be discipline, attentive, kind, perceptive etc. So in this sense your behavior reflects your thoughts and beliefs.
Author: 2018-04-19 11:36:57
I would be on the computer reading about flr, my first action would get excited aned wanting to sign up to join the site.
Author: 2018-04-15 14:36:08
My behaviour is important to my self image on a couple of fronts...when I behave with honour and integrity then I feel good. Reward comes from being a good person and having no part that you are ashamed of or wish to hide from. When you are having to hide from yourself or are ashamed of yourself then energy is taken justifying yourself or finding outlets that makes you feel good. These same behaviours make you someone that is attractive to others and someone they wish to be around. Being near others is what makes me happy as I am a naturally social individual.
Author: 2018-03-27 13:48:43
Behavior is very important to self image. The way that I act and treat others directly reflects how others view me and how they see me as a person. Impressions are everything and are so very important.Even one bad impression can affect the way that multiple people view you. You always have to be responsible.
Author: 2018-03-26 13:03:18
They would see someone a bit out of control. Trying to do things right but without a rudder or anchor. If I was in a FLR I would be more grounded and focused on what is important, my partner. I need an overseer to help direct my energy and thus get far better results for my partner and myself.
Author: 2018-03-19 23:36:34
Because your own behaviour is remembered subconsciously all the time by yourself. Even if no one is watching, your own awareness of your behaviour constructs self image.
Author: 2018-03-13 19:23:27
Behavior is important for self-image because it can raise or lower your self esteem based on whether you are proud of what you have accomplished.
Author: 2018-01-12 08:57:24
One can sum up what an FLR kind of man is in the word “gentleman”. FLR women want this and deserve it. That does not mean you are not a man’s man or that you became submissive. Be who you are but always be a gentleman. She may like your aggression from time to time and you can work that out but FLR men respect FLR women, honor them and show that in their behavior. Saying “mam” is not what I mean. In fact that makes some women feel old. Being a gentleman means being a gentle man, not pushy, but kind and reasonable. This is the single greatest principle of empowerment for her and you in FLR.
Author: 2017-12-02 23:51:59
Your true self. Maya Angelou's quote come to mind.."when people first show you who they are believe them". We sometimes have an idealized view of the way things should be, versus the way things really are. Being true to yourself will only benefit your relationships. You can't have a true relationship in it purest form, if you can't first be true to yourself.
Author: 2017-11-29 15:43:01
I think its important to be true to yourself and to be yourself no matter what, if you can be open about your private life then theres work to do.
Author: 2017-11-05 22:29:42
i am cook, pizzamaker so the last week see me working, sleeping and stay one hours, but the worse thing when a men is alone is the mind, that fly and fly and fly without a target, serve a Woman is above all have a target for unify the fragmented male thoughts, i a point...THE WOMAN....the unity of thoughts is life, the fragmentation of thoughts is death...so the Woman give the life to a male.
Author: 2017-11-02 20:17:23
As people we know wether we are behaving in a way that is honorable or not and I find it to be a very true statement that you cannot lie to yourself so if I can’t has a positive self image because of my behavior my behavior must change I need to live in a way that honors myself and most importantly my mate
Author: 2017-10-23 14:43:55
In one sense we are defined by what we do... as we perform different roles we define a self image. For example, boys learn to do things differently before they see themselves as grown men. To the extent I do and say compassionate things, I realize a compassionate self-image. Problem behaviors likewise contribute to a negative self-image, for example as an addict... and trait-labelling by society reinforces that negative self-image with stigma.
Author: 2017-09-14 21:36:05
I think dominant personalities in general gain satisfaction from controlling subordinates. A man slavishly devoted to a dominant woman fulfills her desire for control, it also reinforces for her his feelings of adoration and expresses how solid the level of devotion to the relationship is.
Author: 2017-08-30 23:28:49
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Author: 2017-08-10 22:54:08
They would see integrity but with the inevitable lapses and foibles. Both parties must have emotional maturity, and a well developed world view helps. Stability of character is very important, especially to give the woman confidence in her submissive man.
Author: 2017-08-06 12:06:51
We all do embarrassing things... after all, we're only human right! But giving your best effort towards your partner will always lead to a wonderful life together!
Author: 2017-08-05 16:03:34
Acting respectable is important and an extremely attractive quality. Try to be the person you want to be.
Author: 2017-07-01 05:33:29
People would see a busy task oriented man getting lots of things done,participate in personal meditation and evaluation.
Author: 2017-05-04 16:13:42
My behaviour in a flr is vital to showing it can work. But it also varies from person to person on the level both are happy with
Author: 2016-10-23 20:19:13
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