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What steps can you take to prepare yourself for successful introduction? Hmm, improve myself everyday.
Author: Max1985 2018-04-26 11:16:32   
I was in a one year long FLR where I went from a 0/10 to start to a 5/10 by the time it was over. I learned that I had to put my alpha self aside and just obey.
Author: Alphabeta18 2018-04-09 20:51:32   
At this moment I do'nt rate as high as I want to. But over the months there has been a lot of reflection over FLR and I find it more and more natural for me to think of ways to ease the daily life for my Wife, even if She doesn't yet know in depth what my inner highest wish is: to be led by Her in the future.
Author: Serv_joe 2018-01-27 06:46:39   
I believe I rate reasonably well from an 'FLR perspective. But in order to present this one must be well prepared in terms of materials to read yourself but as well in terms of materials to present to her. After all an FLR is her decision.
Author: Simmer51 2018-01-03 23:22:49   
I think I have a good understanding of an FLR and certainly the will but I have a lot to learn in order to feel real comfort with the relationship. I am learning and as I am learning my comfort level is certainly growing. I know I have had a life long desire to be able to please a woman in ways other than sexually (although that is always an aim) and I am really a supporter at heart. I always find myself in situations where I support people emotionally, spiritually or whatever. So it seems that FLR was made for me and vice versa.
Author: Simmer51 2017-12-31 23:37:44   
I must acquire as much knowledge as possible about flr gaining this knowledge and more importantly applying it to my life is ctitical to any chance of making myself more attractive to a woman I hope to attract in so far as knowledge I’m learning much but due to my lack of practical experience I don’t think I could possibly rate that high I am eager to meet an flr woman and discuss all the aspects of the 5 food groups and discuss what level she desires and how she will implement it and I honestly share my desires I think after that I will be able to more accurately access myself
Author: Igor2learn 2017-10-25 18:57:01   
You can fill out your profile completely and add thoughtful descriptions and comments. You should note the things in your life that are important and how you expect to maintain a healthy relationship.
Author: LittleMiss-Hubby 2017-10-19 06:40:53   
I am not sure this question applies to me, as I am already married. I think I would have to be single again, which could happen in a couple of ways, without my striving for it. Then I would need to become a familiar person where FLR-positive women congregate. I would need to improve my communication skills so that I can make a connection readily. I am older than most men here, based on what I an glean from their profiles. Being "an old man" with every intention of becoming an "old, old man" is an enjoyable challenge for me. But I do realize there a stigma or at least a set of negative assumptions about being older than a certain age. Of course that stigma is less of a problem for women in their 50s or 60s, especially those who have a sense of humor.
Author: David Jeeves 2017-10-09 19:00:54   
I think the best step is to prepare to set aside all pre conceived notions of "manhood" and accept her views. I will be open to hear what she desires from things, and how she wants the meetings to happen. The easier the better.
Author: ProfessionallookingforhisBOSS 2017-10-02 12:35:56   
Well despite not being very experienced I do believe I have a pretty good understanding of what a healthy flr is but I hope to learn more.
Author: JackStephen 2017-07-01 05:56:12   
Becoming a FLR man means becoming a better man. A man who dresses nicer , keeps a clean house, be a good listener and seek her advice. Be a confident type A FLR man. Show her the respect see deserves. When listening listen for what she is saying to you, not your interpretation. Ask clarifying question, and complete what you say you are going to do. Let her witness the positive aspects of this new you. Follow her lead and grow in your FLR relationship. Learn what she likes and dislikes, go shopping ,model for her, and seek her approval on your clothes. Enjoy her as the dominant woman in all food groups. Support her ideas dreams and life direction. Let her witness this new you supporting her ideas, outlooks and decisions in your activities. Build her confidence in you on being true to her as your woman. Follow her lead and do not assume the end, listen and enjoy.
Author: Flrjer 2017-05-31 05:27:11   
Flrjer Thank You for a very good covering description of how to approach Her in a FLR, I really got something to reconsider.
Reply by: Serv_joe 2017-12-21 06:54:53   
I feel as though I am open and ready to accept my natural state of being. I rate myself at a 6 out of 10 only to accept her into me for her pleasure
Author: Happy56 2016-12-03 19:06:04   
I am open and upfront, happy to divulge about myself. I do have a desire to please, I think a degree of about 80/20 is a good dynamic :-)
Author: DorianGrey 2016-10-24 13:31:16   
Well, I rate me high, about 8/10, cause since many years I have a growing awareness of my submissive nature and of my marriage asset idea. This awareness leads me to improve my behaviour and helps me find the way of building a FLR with my wife
Author: Gammagamma64 2016-09-06 04:36:55   
I rate myself as high in understanding a FLR. I seek to surrender to her completely
Author: Greatday63 2016-07-24 12:08:12   
I rate my self moderately high i already practice good behavior and empowerment practices she has already responded positively to my changes
Author: Lelandswede333 2016-03-29 05:10:35   
I would rate myself 8/10 . I am humble and down to earth . Though ambitious and creative , I am always willing to sacrifice my desires for the woman in my life if she wishes so . I am fascinated by the presence of strong , confident women . I believe women make natural leaders and it is for the betterment of the society that women take the lead . Since I am keen to pursue a FLR relationship , I am actively focusing on becoming a better cook . Get things arranged , gaining the perfection in cleaning etc . I believe I would not lose my masculinity by following an FLR . Instead I will be humbling myself and lose my male ego. I am willing to go any extend to satisfy m partner . I am always willing to consider her needs before mine . I consider that as an honor .
Author: Sandy_2 2015-12-11 10:22:50   
Actively seeking a new FLR.
Author: 54man 2015-11-13 14:02:05   
I have been a level 4 FLR man in a LTR for several years. My mother and father had a FLR for 70 years. My dad was lucky to find such a woman.
Author: 54man 2015-11-13 14:00:31   
When I spend time with a woman who sparks my interest, my natural tendency is to focus on her very strongly, with a need to please and agree with her. When this occurs I'm very much aware of it. I want to adapt myself to her in a passive way and I get the sense she is running the interchange of the relationship. In the last few years of my dating these women are looking for a stronger dominant man which I am not as so we have not connected. Just as men are socialized to act a certain way, so are women in my opinion based on my experiences. I think I rate well for a man as compatible to FLR but have yet to meet a woman who is so inclined by personality and also by purposeful recognition to seek it. My hopes are I will meet a strong woman who can appreciate my tendencies without looking down on them. To be true to myself I must continue to be myself and *not* confirm to society's ideal male traits.
Author: FreeToBeMe 2015-10-18 19:54:56   


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