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Limited authority means that one partner is largely in charge of a part of the relationship but that the other partner still may have a final say or veto power. A food group can still be controlled to a large degree without full control but certain or extreme moves may need some consent from the other partner. Limiting control can provide some security to the partner in less control and big decisions sometimes benefit from having additional input.
Author: HonestSoul 2018-05-15 14:51:20   
Someone can control through authority, to achieve full control means to control the five groups. That is the final fulfillment, the ultimate control.
Author: MrCybelle 2018-04-27 17:09:07   
Can someone effectively control a food group without full control? How does limiting make control better/worse?
Author: Max1985 2018-04-26 11:13:36   
Yes they can. Perhaps one person is a vegetarian for example, and this is a deep ethical choice that they have made. By setting this limit, any qualms are removed in the other aspects of diet.
Author: Wayland 2018-03-13 19:55:18   
You have some free spending money but will not govern how the majority of the money is spent in the relationship. She will make the larger money decisions. She may give you some spending money for example a night out with friends.
Author: Panchafinder5 2017-11-03 18:56:54   
It means although the woman has the say the man will be advised and things are discussed perhaps this is best as starting point but it still leaves room for drama and strife because she does not have full authority once full authority is established the possibility for that is lessened
Author: Igor2learn 2017-10-24 21:39:56   
It means that generally things are controlled, in my case i m allowed to spent neccessary Money for fuel, buying groceries, get stuff for the Kids and so on when ist neccesary or ordered. I have to deliver the receipt for each Cent spent to her for checking i didn t buy any unneccesary stuff, which i don t do, as it would only result in shifting my release date, or loose any other privilege.
Author: Owned_one 2017-09-25 03:54:01   
Authority to decide may be limited for a period of time or for some amount. For example the manager/leader in the Financial food group may personally pay all the bills and budget for all expenses, but the dependent partner may have a certain amount allowed as unaccountable, or "walking around" money. So in that sense the control of the manager/leader is limited... it does not extend to the unaccountable money. In a sense the dependent spouse has limited authority in this case, to spend any way he likes, up to the allowed amount per month. It makes control more palatable to the manager/leader because she does not need to micro-manage every penny spent. It make control more palatable to the dependent spouse, because he can act on his own impulse sometimes, without having to explain.
Author: David Jeeves 2017-09-18 15:53:04   
Limiting restricts the capacity for careful exploration of an FLR, for example he may be reticent to be caned without knowing the potential pleasure. The woman may not feel too happy not being able to be as assertive as she would like.
Author: Philipt 2017-08-08 08:29:18   
By limiting you are demonstrating control. By limiting a partner you are actually asserting more control than if you weren't.
Author: JackStephen 2017-07-01 05:21:47   
The authority is understood but the pleasure of being put in charge of areas of food groups builds confidence in the FLR relationship. By her allowing some items to be handled by her submissive build confidence in the FLR relationship. It gives her the opportunity to watch and see if the relationship is true. As her confidence is affirmed by the confidence of her submissive the relationship moves forward into the direction with correct understanding and thought. So the limited control granted by her ids a training tool used to gain her confidence as the relationship grows and expands. Full FLR relationship can only grow to full potential when her confidence in her submissive grows.
Author: Flrjer 2017-05-29 06:25:05   
I don't think this is detrimental if you are under level 4 for example. If you have kids, you can't have a situation where you cannnot do things with them because your finances are so tightly controlled that your partner is at work, unreachable and you have no funds. You need to be practical and if you really do want strict control then the controller must be on hand at all times in case something is required so the responsibility is enormous
Author: DorianGrey 2016-10-24 13:27:29   
Yes, it allows comfort zones to be established. Although she can break them, her knowing them helps her respect your sub so he can be more obedient as the relatioship progresses.
Author: Helpme555 2016-09-21 14:14:08   
By discussion one can look at all the 5 food groups analyse them and agree levels of control or agreements.One can set limits for the manager and later discuss and vary them as felt required as the relationship develops.It should help your partner trust you more and feel more comfortable and confident in the relationship which is good for you in the end if you are happy with what you have agreed.
Author: Perversey 2016-09-17 02:32:25   
I suppose one could have limited control in some aspects of a FLR. It depends on the level. Limiting control can be good for those who prefer a lower level in some areas but may not be good for the more dominant and submissive.
Author: Ericthebritt 2016-08-21 02:03:17   
The lady should have total control over all food groups and with that comes the right to punish or take away anything that she want to.
Author: Jeffery 2016-03-04 20:35:49   
In my humble opinion , Limited authority is where a man doesn't have full control however his inputs are taken into account . If we take the example of Life direction , a man can provide his views however he final decision with be made by his leader - the woman . In case of finances too , he may not request for permission for each and everything , instead he will be provided an allowance and he can use it for genuine needs and at the end can submit the bills or justification .
Author: Sandy_2 2015-12-22 00:28:58   
This is actually a natural aspect of a busy Mmatriarchs life. In the past iI have been given full authority to act on Hher behalf in many ways from finance, to hosting, to child rearing etc... a busy Mmatriarch delegates many things , so this is a natural aspect of a dynamic FLR under a busy Mmatriarch. - edited by staff [reason: femdom camel case - this is NOT a fetish site -40 points, most of Steven4FLR offer femdom jargon]
Author: Steven4FLR 2015-11-02 11:00:11   
Woman decides that the man should for instance take care of Budgeting for household, but does not have access to the Bank Account. Budgeting becomes the "limited" Finance authority delegated for the ease of woman's role in this area.
Author: Mario4Level3 2015-06-25 18:01:41   
It places limits on how much power the woman has for that group. It makes control worse as any limits it saying I don't trust you.
Author: 1goodguy2u 2015-02-22 01:35:31   

 

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