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Fantasy must not replace the day to day working of the union and neither participant must forget that things need to get done on a daily basis for the household and the relationship to run.
Author: Sweet 2018-05-20 10:03:40   
FemDom portrays women in a way they are not comfortable with. Women do want to lead, command and even have men as their slaves in demand but FemDom is competing with your woman 's desire to lead.
Author: MrCybelle 2018-04-27 02:35:01   
FemDom portrays women in a way they are not comfortable with. Women do want to lead, command and even have men as their slaves on demand but FemDom is competing with your woman´s desire to lead.
Author: Max1985 2018-04-26 07:10:11   
femdom uses models, change requires a change on your ppart. You are taking steps to resocialize your self as a man who obeys.
Author: Dudley 2018-04-10 12:55:15   
FemDom takes the real love and caring out of a relationship. The FemDom uses and abused her mate. She considers him as a "thing", non-personal, an "it" that is tossed away like a piece of garbage.
Author: RespectInChastity 2018-03-19 21:45:11   
Femdom is destructive because it is both an objectification of women, but also a parody of true Female led relationships.
Author: Wayland 2018-03-13 19:41:52   
FemDom isn't real and is based upon the males thinking of a flr relationship. It's competing with your woman's desire to lead.
Author: Hungryguy741 2018-03-04 15:04:09   
Femdom and all porn in general is toxic to the mental well being of the subject. Femdom is unrealistic in that the male/slave is portrayed as a powerless, weak non entity. The power exchange is too much. That is much different the FLR.
Author: Jammes12 2018-01-26 06:51:32   
The Femdom paradigm is a male created fantasy built to cater to male desires and has little to do with the actual female need for leadership and authority. Porn creates a fantasy world that does not come close to actual reality. It sets up expectations which are very hard to live up to. So Porn works against FLR in two ways. It sets up unreal expectations and it models a relationship that probably will not work in the real world.
Author: Simmer51 2018-01-02 17:42:02   
Femdom glorifies/amplifies the negative aspect of females in a leadership role. Women don't need to actually step on their male counterparts to reflect "leadership" instead women can and do lead through their natural intelligence and emotional intuition. Femdom is nothing more than an over than "candy" for the weak minded
Author: Whateveryoudesire 2017-10-31 21:27:02   
The problem of flr dark it's not flr I have had my day at objectifying women and no longer want to live like that I want honor and respect my mate and help her fulfill her desires and I know that I must learn to live in a way that lets her know I feel no need for those things because she is all that and more
Author: Igor2learn 2017-10-22 17:41:13   
Femdom is competing with the woman in the FLR. She, not the Domme, is the real boss. Why have a fake boss?
Author: ProfessionallookingforhisBOSS 2017-10-02 12:43:33   
The minority (40-50%) of women who want to lead could probably benefit from successful role models. But to the best of my knowledge, FemDom personas would be of limited use as role models, being based on male fantasy. A woman's desire to lead carries with it a need to be followed and supported by a gentleman or perhaps a number of FLR type men. FemDom fantasy characters divert male support and submission.
Author: David Jeeves 2017-09-14 11:21:25   
FemDom is prominently based on sexual desire of men and the fantasy of men resulting in receipt of sexual service for the male.
Author: JPM1971 2017-08-16 01:14:20   
JPM1971 Mess on the true relationship again
Reply by: James 2017-09-21 18:15:46   
It is destructive because it is a complete misrepresentation of what a flr is. Love and understanding are a large part of flr.
Author: JackStephen 2017-07-01 06:23:02   
FemDom portrays women in a way they are not comfortable with. Women do want to lead, command and even have men as their slaves on demand but FemDom is competing with your woman´s desire to lead.
Author: Barry66 2017-06-26 16:07:36   
Barry66 True statements I totally agree with what you're saying
Reply by: James 2017-09-21 18:15:11   
The Femdom which is awesome to begin with don't let me discredit her ability her looks her motivation it's not for me to interpret or even decide about the fate of her and her place in this journey I think it's awesome but I don't believe she ever goes beyond that's Circle that never ending merry go round And I believe that's a good place to be but I don't know how they can sustain it without going Beyond the element of p*** ideals as the superior level I believe that's an illusion and if she can encompass that level into the levels ahead of her she will become even a better lady and have much much more fulfillment of her inner desires
Author: Flrjer 2017-05-07 06:12:05   
FemDom plays to a man's fantasies, and doesn't teach him to understand and seek to meet her needs. In FLR, he works to understand her needs and desires, then work to meet them without compulsion.
Author: Newmilleniumguy 2017-04-28 18:03:56   
FemDom is actually a commercial intity of the porn industry and displays the FLR on the dark side, and does nothing to stimulate the traits of a healthy Femal Led Relationship.
Author: Mikkiservlacy 2017-04-15 12:23:12   
FLR is not nevessarily into BDSM. Therefore Femdom may not be the right approach. Femdom is strictly into BDSM and kinks, whil FLR is not
Author: Porroland 2017-04-14 13:19:14   

 

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