I am willing to obey my woman? - What men say about female led relationships

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I am willing to obey my woman? - What men say about female led relationships

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The question "I am willing to obey my woman? - What men say about female led relationships" comes from one of our user polls. The current poll tallies are posted below. We post the polls to discover real world answers to complex and intriguing questions about female led relationships. The reader should note that questions are often cast in combination (groups of questions) to create greater clarity. To see the entire poll click here

7% 1% 92%
If She Wants No Yes

*this poll was requested from men

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Here you go women, almost all men who want female led relationships are willing to obey their woman. Does that surprise you? it should not because these men want your leadership
Author: Sean 2011-01-06 19:49:40

What our users say

I really like that some people have found a great FLR and are happy. I am a soft hearted and caring male that has always been submissive. I fell into bad relationships because I didn't understand what I really needed. The last year I have looked back at a failed marriage and realised exactly what I need in a relationship. Like some that have written, I seek a relationship where the woman leads the relationship and I support/serve. I know that I want someone that loves me for me and can lead me to be even better. If I am loved I will give all of my being, showing my love, devotion and willingness to follow to the woman who leads our relationship. I don't see a FLR as strange or wrong. To me I have always put other people first and I feel good when I can help someone or make them happy so I see this as something I especially want to do for my partner. I see obeying a woman in a relationship as a way of pleasing her and making her as happy as can be so I am willing to obey my woman when we find each other, or she clubs me over the head and drags me home, lol
Author: Caringbrian 2016-04-17 21:10:35
Dominancy by either sex in a relationship is okay as long as it is not taken too far I.e no one should have the right to beat up their partner or to take all their money. Nor is it right that one should do all the work. Someone doing a bit more work is fine. Also why would u want to be the the boss, because if that is what u want u do not love ur partner u only love what u can make him or her into and that is low
Author: Hi 2011-09-22 11:04:56
If a woman leads the relationship she doesn't love her husband? Then same goes for almost every man from the begining of time(though it might be true for a lot of men because they were pigs back then.) right? There is nothing wrong with a man obeying the person he expects to bring his children into the world after hours of agonizing labor. If a man can demand respect for simply being a man, then a women can demand respect out of her expectence to give life.
Author: Michelle 2011-10-11 18:27:18
I would love to be under my woman, she can lead me anywhere, and any time
Author: Guest 2012-01-04 01:07:08
I don't even understand the question. You're not in a female-led relationship if you aren't obeying.
Author: Guest 2016-01-30 16:43:15
I am willing and would love to totally obey my wife.She is the love of my life.We have been married 37 years and have been in a female led relationship for a year now. It was my desire for this lifestyle after many years thinking about it and finally bringing the idea up to my wife.I had her read several books about it and she is slowly beginning to embrace her power over me.She is lovingly leading in our marriage.
Author: Dave 2014-08-22 00:34:16
I am willing to obey my woman? - What men say about female led relationships I am not only willing to obey my woman I am hungry, desperate and crazy to do so, the problem is that there is no examples of these types of relationships being posted or demonstrated in widespread media, we need to change that by at least having a dialogue here. Do they exist? I believe they are rare but that they are in a process of blooming like a spring harvest. Why? Because many men like myself understand that nature has built us by design to feel crazy for women all the time, great for women, do women deserve this burden probably not, but if they were too not use it for good would be tragic. paulchristensen@shaw.ca
Author: Modern guy 2012-05-09 16:09:10
What is obeying? Am i being loyal or being whipped? And if loyal to whom? Sure ill be under a woman but the right woman. If you arent looking for me to submit chances are i will on my own. If you attempt to control me ill resist.
Author: Guest 2013-01-28 16:57:30
If obeying is out of fantasy then I believe it is nothing but satisfying another desire of a Male. If it is out of respect for each other. Understanding the role of each other than I would say it is the right way to go and submit oneself to your spouse for the blessings to enjoy.
Author: Adam 2014-06-01 07:33:48
I believe it's all about the couple my wife has a dominant personality she also has a very successful business & provides for our family. She is the leader of the household & deserves to be put upon a pedestal, we had a conversation one night when we were drinking & she brought up the idea of me following her lead. Her exact words too me was that she's the boss & she wears the pants & that I needed to do as I was told, I was very reluctant at 1st but now I realize she is the boss !!!! Two years later there's no turning back I've never been happier because I'm where I belong serving the most perfect woman I've ever met.
Author: Guest 2015-01-05 21:06:35
My wife and I have just begun the journey into FLR. I explained that I have always been a man who was in charge and because of it I would have an anger problem when things didn't go right. My wife is much more calm and I feel if she is the leader I wouldn't have the anger issue because it wouldn't matter to me anymore. She would be the one who made the decisions and if it didn't bother her it shouldn't bother me. We are only into this for a very short time and so far I feel it has really helped me a lot. She still has to get used to it because she hasn't been a leader too much, although there are two places in her life where she had to take control and she did! In fact she has done very well. She has already told me that she wants to learn how to pay the bills online so she will pushing me out of the way on that. I'm excited that she has accepted the role for now at least and she said she wanted to talk one on one tomorrow about this.
Author: Guest 2015-03-11 11:07:04
I relate to so much of all this but my wife won't take the final plunge and be the dominant in an FLR. She will "give it a go" but says she needs guides and education first. I am not convinced her desire is there which will frustrate me but after 30 years of marriage I would like to try, I crave it actually. Any advice.?
Author: Subby Stubby 2015-04-03 18:19:51
Before OBEYING their should be alot of LOVE for each other then LOVE HONER AND OBEYING and then OBEYING I WILL
Author: Ad0NieS7 2015-05-09 19:52:49
My girlfriend has a great job and has dominant personality. She has also told me she is the boss and I need to start filling her and doing as she says without question... "Just do it"! That's my strugel. I do for a time then stop. Revert back to social norms ( were I don't fit). That's why I'm back on this site. Talk listen learn. Any thoughts or sugestion (s) to me letting go for good.?
Author: Iam4myFox 2015-05-25 00:17:48
When we were dating my girlfriend Jennifer was always nice and caring to me since we had known each other for 15 years since high school both about 34 but had only just recently started dating in 2013 to January 2015 for 2 years before she decided she needed a break and at first that broke my heart but then a few days after that we started texting each other again and still do every day and one day I asked her would you like me to obey you and listen to you and she told me if you want I would like that so I did and that made her happy and a month later I asked her do you want me to keep obeying you and listening to you and she said sure so I said to her ok I will do what you ask and want and I will always obey you and listen to you from now on just like you want and then I asked her if she liked what I said and she told me yes so now I always obey her and listen to her and I always do what she tells me to do for her to please her and keep her happy and she told me that's nice so I told her that my caring heart will always do those nice things for you just like you want so I hope that By doing those nice things obeying and listening to her that she will see that my caring heart will always be there for her and hopefully she will take me back soon since I tell her I care about her and I tell her that I will always obey and listen to your beautiful smiling face just like you want so I think as long as I give in and let her take control of everything then I think she will always be happy and now she has me convinced that's how things are gonna go now so I guess I don't mind obeying someone so beautiful and someone that's always nice to me and I will always be nice to her and do those things she wants from now on.
Author: Chris12345 2015-11-16 00:46:20
FLR is the only way to go
Author: Guest 2017-08-14 16:39:15
I happily suggested that my wife control our marriage in every respect -- from finances to sex to everyday decisions and she graciously accepted the role. I enjoy being submissive, docile and obedient and wish that I had done it decades ago.
Author: Subhubby 2017-09-10 08:21:34
Honestly....i really do'nt imagine a FLR if i'm not ready to obey Her. That doesn't make sense for me. And to make Her feel that -She is HOH in all senses you simply obey Her.
Author: Serv_joe 2018-01-05 05:22:10


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