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Most men want to practice orgasm denial in their FLR. That means she controls and he gets less. The theory in his fantasy is he will be more motivated to serve is she has sexual power over him. I don`t know the reality if that is true but impulsive behaviors in men worked up sexually run high and focus and productivity drop so it is a good want to motivate? I suspect a chastity situation would be the only answer to control masturbation
Author: Admin 2011-01-06 19:49:40
There are many benefits to orgasm control for men: stronger erections in their later years, more energy in their lives, assists in developing self-mastery in other areas, delaying gratification helps anyone's character mature, helps ensure that a woman will have ample time to not only achieve orgasm but also to help the woman explore her nine levels of arousal, the first orgasm being only level 4 out of 9.
Author: ElegantAngel 2012-02-12 14:23:42
Author: MisterR 2012-03-23 10:50:20
Orgasm control is great for older men, but I think that it is critical for younger males as well. It can be self-trained, but I think it is much more effective when a woman is in control of the training process, with suitable rewards and punishments as needed.
Author: Dashro23 2013-12-01 12:18:59
After working for a doctor for many years. I was informed that orgasm for a man at least twice a week up until 50 yrs of age helps avoid prostate cancer. This is why I have not wanted my partner to overly control his orgasm.
Author: Lady Jean 2014-04-08 19:37:00
I agree in principle with Lady Jean’s comments the actual orgasm can be removed totally and safely by adopting prostate massage (AKA milking). While one in six men in the U.S. is diagnosed with prostate cancer, studies show that prostate massage helps to reduce the risks. Milking the prostate brings fresh blood and oxygen to the normally congested and suffocating gland. In addition, men who have tried it show an increase in libido, and if allowed, sexual performance and satisfaction. Prostate massage is also helpful in treating prostatitis (inflammation of the prostate gland) as well as haemorrhoids and fissures. The prostate can be stimulated both externally through pressure against the perineum and internally through the rectum. By continuously putting pressure, the prostate will expel the same fluids which are contained in the semen. Since the nerves for the prostate are irritated as well in this process, the person might experience a feeling similar to orgasm but nowhere near the same level as ‘normal’. He may also have an urge to pee, but is unlikely to do so but he will literally have no control when he cum’s it will just slowly happen. Stimulation through the rectum is more direct, intense and typically provides better results but unless the male organ is actually stimulated the male will not achieve a full orgasm. A note of warning? Prostate massage can cause complications if performed in cases of acute prostatitis as it can contribute to spreading the infection to the epididymis or, even more dangerous, in the blood. You might want to visit an urologist and consult on this issue if applicable for additional information.
Author: Guest 2015-10-15 04:28:36