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Most women like the thought orgasm denial for him. Perhaps as part of teasing or perhaps because she gets a thrill form having power over him or perhaps it is just a strange role reversal from him being the aggressor, this is a no guilt pleasure - enjoy
Author: Inquisitor 2011-01-06 19:49:40
Female control is great
Author: BIll8555 2012-05-01 20:09:50
I have experience with real life enforced chastity, and it is not to be taken lightly. First, let me say that it is a very difficult undertaking for a host of reasons. First, it is not easy to wear a plastic or metal cage on your privates 24/7, and during workouts, or physical activity it is just not practical. Any successful chastity program must have realistic goals. In my own experience I found it impossible to do 24/7 partly due to work (my job required being randomly searched for security reasons). Therefore, I would be allowed to remove the device when leaving for work, and immediately put it back on the instant I returned home. I was required to wear it 24/7 on weekends and any days off on vacation. Any of the common chastity devices on the market can be easily defeated by the wearer without the knowledge of the keyholder, unless the male has a piercing at the penis glans and is secured by it to the device. This does not mean however, that the devise is not needed. I found that by wearing the device it served as a constant reminder that I was not allowed to touch my penis without her permission, as well as suppressing erections. The fact that you can not touch yourself at all while wearing the device is very frustrating especially in the beginning, but I found I got used to it after the first few weeks. The biggest benefit to the Woman involved in such a relationship is that I found the longer I was locked up the more willing to obey her orders I was. The wearer will find themselves in a almost continual state of frustrated arousal after some time (you will develop the "drip" after a few weeks where you will have almost constant dampness at the tip of the penis due to pre-cum leaking). That pent up need for sexual release meant that I found myself able to do some rather embarrassing things when order by my dominate Woman that I don't think I would have done otherwise. It really does give the woman a lot more leverage with her in control of the man's penis.
Author: Boundbone 2014-10-22 21:22:22
The notion of a power exchange is sexually charged and borders on fantasy desire. To take away the reward, the sex, alters the dynamic of the power exchange in a radical manner, and speaks volumes toward the sincerity of both parties in the pursuit of a female led relationship. When the man is doing it for more than a thrill, when he's committed, and when she has acknowledged him and takes charge of his most intimate functions, there becomes a strong allegiance to the woman. By making it about the sex but taking away the sex, the actions the man takes become more honest in his approach to her.
Author: Guest 2016-04-21 18:19:21