Financial

[st998]

Question for married men in an flr. Does you wife control the finances? What level of control does she have?

• This topic was modified 1 year, 8 months ago by st998.
• This topic was modified 1 year, 8 months ago by st998.

[Bobbie]

my Wife has always managed the finances in our marriage. i’m retired now but my paycheck has been direct deposited into our joint checking account ever since direct deposit became a thing. Before that i’d endorse the check and give it to Her to deposit. It is a joint checking account but She has the checkbook and i’m not allowed to write checks. As my career advanced, our finances became more complex as i became a shareholding partner in my firm, had inheritances, etc…but She always directed me in handling $$$ and i had to do what i was told. Now my Social Security check is direct deposited.
i get an allowance for daily expenses, and if i want to buy anything big i have to ask Her. i do have a credit card but She gets a detailed statement every month and She goes through it carefully, so i can’t use the card casually and would have to explain any charges.

[london.subbie]

I think allowing the Domme to control the houses finances is an integral part of a FLR. His wages should be transferred to her on pay day and he should have a digital online bank account like Monzo which she transfers money onto so she he can do household grocery shopping. He should then have to send her the receipts from the shop so she can see exactly what he has spent and to ensure the figure balance.

[Teensy]

My wife controls every aspect of our finances. She pays the bills and parcels out $20 a week for me to spend. I can’t imagine our marriage working any other way.

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