58M/Austin, TX USA SWM 5-10, 190#

I am looking for a one-sided monogamous long-term relationship (marriage) where I would be the monogamous partner while you would be able to enjoy your freedom to maintain your autonomy. I really want to see that you are happy and have all of your needs met. I am happy to sign your relationship agreement at our first introduction/meeting as I am really seriously looking for someone special.

FOUNDATIONAL: Female-led relationship

Going way back I have never been attracted to the stereotypical women. If you asked a “young me” my type, I would have described her as “independent”. At some point this would have evolved to include “alpha” as a way to describe her. If only there was a Sorting Hat like in Harry Potter to find my type!  Eventually, much later in life, I learned about the female-led relationship which is what I have been looking for all these years without knowing it. 

NOW:

At this point I am primarily interested in someone like me who:

* Lives in Texas
* Smoke-free
* Drug-free
* Occasionally enjoys a margarita at Torchy’s
* Does NOT desire children

BTW:

Here are a few extra tidbits about me others have asked:

* Masculine, not a sissy
* No tattoos

FUTURE:

I am starting to looking at retiring in the future before my “full” retirement age of 67. If you’ve seen “The Durrells in Corfu” on PBS (or just “The Durrells” on BBC) that gives a hint. Absent finding Mrs. Right, I plan on moving somewhere with a lower cost of living, perhaps for 6-9 months per country. Maybe even the future Mrs Right would like to see a bit of the rest of this big blue planet. Hence the name “ProbNotCorfu”… For probably not Corfu…