Thank you for your tip Philip. As for most things in life: communication is key.
I started talks several times; some longings openly communicated but not all out yet.
I find her listening with an open heart but no active follow up by her.
It’s a good challenge and takes courage to take it on step by step; working towards what you call the regular “Command and control”meeting
It has to be done from naming my feelings. This is the only way to avoid implicit demands. I feel so vulnarable doing so. And feeling that vulnarable is exciting and frightening at the same time. But “The only way is up (;->)”. Also trying to incorporate a bit of self-mockery. It helps lightening things up. So time and humor are on my side (;->).
Fons
