Important reality check for submissive who want to relocate to a Dominant woman

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Hello everyone,
I regularly receive messages from mature submissive men (often aged 65–78) who are looking for a serious FLR and offer to relocate to me from another state. Many of them write very nicely: full service, surrender of control, “I will greet you with a glass of champagne after work”, “my pleasure is serving you”, etc.
I try to be polite and always ask a direct question:
“Will you be able to fully support yourself? Florida is not a cheap state, and I am not ready to financially support another person.”
And this is where things often get interesting.
Many of these men are currently living with relatives, renting a room/bed, or, judging by the situation, are in very difficult financial conditions. Yet they sincerely believe that moving in with a dominant woman is a great idea — she will provide housing, and he will wash her panties and greet her with champagne after work.
Dear men, let’s speak openly and like adults.
If you want to move in with a woman and live under her control, the most reasonable thing is to be honest about your real financial situation from the very beginning. Don’t make the woman pull information out of you piece by piece. Saying “I will not be a financial burden to you” is a sign of respect and maturity.
This is especially important for men 70+ (senior seniors). The average Social Security for a 75-year-old man is about $2,080 per month. Realistic monthly expenses for a single elderly person in Florida (housing + healthcare + food + transportation) easily reach $3,000 – $3,800.
When a woman honestly tells you that she is not ready to support you, cover the difference in expenses, and potentially take care of you in a few years — this is not “being mercenary”. This is a normal adult position. Especially if she herself maintains several properties and is already over 60.
Getting offended and writing “it’s all about the money” after such a conversation is simply avoiding reality.
If your pension and savings do not allow you to live independently in the state you want to move to, then perhaps you should first consider realistic options (senior housing, assisted living facilities, Medicaid programs, etc.), instead of looking for a woman who will take on the role of free caregiver and sponsor.
I’m writing this not to offend anyone, but to reduce disappointment on both sides.
Dear men, please be honest from the start. This will greatly increase your chances of finding real compatibility.

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