QUICK QUESTION FOR YOU 😊

[Mermaid Goddess]

I’m here again …. Does anyone know any site that has real subs that aren’t just faking or scamming? I literally run into so many fake profiles trying to scam…. It’s to the point I met someone on this app and they thought I was scamming them lol that’s a first. but yeah…. Please tell me websites or chatrooms to find a good sub that’s real and ready to meet in person….. If your a sub and serious then check out my past post to see what I’m looking for and message me ☺️

[servescurves]

It seems harder these days as a lot of online options no longer support kink. OKCupid used to but they are vanilla now although Bumble may be option using the usual “codes” such as assertive and leading etc to avoid being too explicit. I am told this is a good site although mostly older guys and few women. But sadly often needle in haystack and genuine women are hounded so then leave.

[Mermaid Goddess]

Thanks for the recommendation 🙂

[servus]

i’m certainly not faking, but i’d never try to relate to a Female who is 40 years my junior. There are real submissiv males here, hope You’ll find one 🙂

[sparkyflr]

Us boys are suffering from the same problem. Maybe we should have Facebook or fetlife profiles and just meet up there.

[Mermaid Goddess]

Maybe we should. What’s your FetLife name?

[Happysubman]

By openly stating that you are seeking a level 4 FLR you attract the wrong type of partner. Personally I believe that a level 1 or 2 should be a starting point for establishing a sustainable relationship. Later on the partners can increase the intensity of the FLR together …

[Mermaid Goddess]

I feel the same way as well. I put the level so people will know how far id like to take my kinks. But, your so right.

[FLR4sub]

I think it`s better to specify. FLR is an process, development. I like to know from the beginning on how far the woman want to go ideally. If that then also will become reality – who knows?

[Happysubman]

I personally believe that there should be a FLR level for the relationship and another FLR level for kink. I love to be controlled and I am very attracted to women who are naturally dominant and want to be in control in a relationship. On the other hand I am not very interested in kink role play.

[floppenheimer]

That’s actually a quite fair point. Will keep it in mind.

• This reply was modified 1 year, 10 months ago by floppenheimer.

[sparkyflr]

On Fetlife I’m sythebrit

[Richard]

ARE MANY FAKE/SCAM FEMAALES HERE..ONE IS CURRENTLY IN PERSONALS..ASKING TO BUY ITEMS FOR $200 FOR TRAINING..

[Happysubman]

Hi

Sorry I did not reply to your comment concerning the starting level for an FLR. Personally I am not sure what level I might prefer. It all depends on the partner and her commitment to a serious relationship.

[M/Canada Fit nerd looking]

All I know is I am really here, but I am also new to this site. About to find out for myself, I suppose.

[adam]

What is your fetlife name?

[Slave-husband]

I’m not fake either. Just seeking a real partner for a lasting level 4 relationship.

[Slave-husband]

Oh, and I have run into so many fake domme who only want gift cards, not me. Still hold out hope, though, that there is someone real who will want me.

[the Sundays servant ;)]

Doubt women are actually facing similar problems with scammers as we guys do!
But maybe worth to post a question about this in main, idk.

Anyways, read the firth post of the opener and you know about everything.

• This reply was modified 1 year, 9 months ago by the Sundays servant ;).

[Happysubman]

What is a scammer or a fake? To hide between a profile? Not being truthful with respect to living situation, past and actual relationships, health, physical appearance, sexuality, kinky interests etc. ? people who ask for money upfront are honest. People who hide the factcthatctgeyyare homeless are not

[Subby hubby]

I’m having the same issue in reverse I’ve met at least 15 in the last year. It’s frustrating and depressing, I’m starting to think something is wrong with me. Why can’t I find what I am looking for I’m extremely submissive and obedient. I even told a few to break me down and build me up into what you want me be. And yes I even sent money to a couple of them. I want to give up but I can’t she’s out there she just has to come save me

[Atyourservice66]

I am 100% genuine and real mermaid goddess. My Gmail is guessjames45@gmail.com and I would love to chat with you more. Anything you desire to show I’m real will be fine I hope to hear from you soon

[RichardBlaine]

Hello Mermaid Goddess. Hope this note finds you well. I’m an Ohioan who has been in and out of the BDSM lifestyle for 30 years, mostly as a submissive to my dominatrix girlfriend, who enjoyed putting me in bondage and dominating me almost every day. We were in a level 2 FLR for a few years and I was happy to do my best to please her. I am open-minded, respectful, and am older than you. If you would like to talk more, I can be reached at perfectlycast@yahoo.com Have a good evening. Hope to hear from you.

Richard

[Jay]

Hello queen, I feel your pain , lots of fakes and users. Be careful in yoir quest. I am also looking for a flr but lots of scammers out there. Do be careful my queen

[Slave-husband]

I’d say that Fetlife is a great choice.
Am there if anyone wants to chat…

[dragon]

try collarspace

[Slave-husband]

I just sent you a text, Mistress.

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