Is this FLR or something else?

I’ve recently taken on a desire and it seems to be an aspect of FLR. But is there another name for it?

I am still a virgin, myself, an older male one. I’m timid and intellectual, and these two aren’t great qualities for our dating culture.

I’ve come into feeling free that if a woman led and initiated the entire relationship, it would feel less anxious for me.

I also like the teasing aspect where she likes that I’m a virgin and weaponizes it. Like, she won’t physically touch me intimately, but teases up to it making me work for it. Maybe slowly but surely, through various incremental stages, gets me to the final virginity loss with her.

Is this FLR, or is it just some kind of weird kink?