Hey Tennesse, I’m a newbie, on a fixed income since retiring and have a comfortable life. Who am I to offer advice, but here it is…fuck mentioning the money. If you’re married confess to the wife, if not the gf or the widow next door. I gradually let my wife take total charge over these past two weeks. I love it, I see her growing and enjoying taking the lead in our marriage. I haven’t seen her smile so much in I don’t know how long. It’s been rewarding for me and I do think so for her. Just give it a try.