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Anne
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I’m glad you asked this.

To answer your question, I will enlist the main reasons below:

1. Asian men have a very flawed idea of FLR. To them, it means nothing more than BDSM. So, they expect cheap kinks and fetishes only. Other times, they will demand submission from me since they cannot fathom a woman being in charge.

2. Asians have a cultural mandate requiring women to abide by misogynist rituals no matter how liberal they outwardly appear to be.

3. Asians are extremely religious in most asian countries. They mock atheism and, in particular, Matriarchy.

4. Contrary to popular belief, Asians are racist and classist among themselves. For example, they despise dark skinned people (especially if it’s a woman they’re considering for marriage).

5. Most of them are right wingers and homophobic.

6. They have zero literacy regarding Feminism and hence proudly badmouth it.

7. Regardless of how supposedly progressive an asian man might be, he will expect his wife to leave her parental home upon getting married, live with his family for rest of her life, and please his parents through obeying ridiculous sexist customs. They initially claim this to be temporary and only for the in-laws’ convenience but eventually end up brainwashing the lady to adapt to it for the entirety of her life.

There are more reasons. However, these were the most crucial ones that are absolutely true (since I know my own culture too well).

It’s not like I never tried to begin with Indian/Asian man but after observing more than 50 cases over past 3 years I’ve come to the conclusion that it is best for me to not to be pursueded by them.

Hope this answers your curiosity.