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Attempt 6 of Finding My Man
This is my sixth time posting on this platform.
I keep posting once in a while with a hope that I will eventually find my man.
I have come across ineligible men mostly (those who do not fit my criteria at all). And worst of all, I’ve been misled by men who lovebomb me in the beginning and then vanish after ghosting me. That sh*t hurts as hell.
Please DO NOT text me if you’re a casual kink lover or someone who’s going to ghost me suddenly. I am in search of an exceptional man who is absolutely pure and filled with good intentions. Who will love and support me unconditionally till death.And please only msg after reading the requirements from my profile. Also, I DON’T WANT MEN MESSAGING ME WITH – “Your expectations are unrealistic. Learn to settle for less. Compromise on few areas and accept me.” Stay in your place and don’t try to lecture a Dom. If you lack even 1 single criterion then don’t even think of sending me a DM.
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I’m glad you asked this.
To answer your question, I will enlist the main reasons below:
1. Asian men have a very flawed idea of FLR. To them, it means nothing more than BDSM. So, they expect cheap kinks and fetishes only. Other times, they will demand submission from me since they cannot fathom a woman being in charge.
2. Asians have a cultural mandate requiring women to abide by misogynist rituals no matter how liberal they outwardly appear to be.
3. Asians are extremely religious in most asian countries. They mock atheism and, in particular, Matriarchy.
4. Contrary to popular belief, Asians are racist and classist among themselves. For example, they despise dark skinned people (especially if it’s a woman they’re considering for marriage).
5. Most of them are right wingers and homophobic.
6. They have zero literacy regarding Feminism and hence proudly badmouth it.
7. Regardless of how supposedly progressive an asian man might be, he will expect his wife to leave her parental home upon getting married, live with his family for rest of her life, and please his parents through obeying ridiculous sexist customs. They initially claim this to be temporary and only for the in-laws’ convenience but eventually end up brainwashing the lady to adapt to it for the entirety of her life.
There are more reasons. However, these were the most crucial ones that are absolutely true (since I know my own culture too well).
It’s not like I never tried to begin with Indian/Asian man but after observing more than 50 cases over past 3 years I’ve come to the conclusion that it is best for me to not to be pursueded by them.
Hope this answers your curiosity.
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Hey Anne,
I know you are not looking for an Indian guy, but I am writing this message to let you know I fulfill almost most of your criterias and I am open to work/adjust towards the criterias that I don’t fulfill with your help and support.
I always wanted what you are looking for, a dominant partner without only indulging in cheap kinks and fetishes, but I never got one. That’s why I have always been single and virgin all my life. Always wanted to devote myself to a woman who can take charge of my life and to whom I can devote myself completely. This is not only about cheap kinks and fetishes and lust, but deep devotion and love.
However, important things to notice, I am not six feet tall, I am 5’7 and I am 23. If you are open to discuss or help me work towards the criterias that you want and completely want me as per your wishes, let me know. We can have a discussion.
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