I appreciated how direct and intentional your post is. It’s refreshing to see someone who knows exactly what she’s looking for. I’m not looking for a chat buddy or fantasy exchange either. I’m interested in finding a real, lasting FLR with someone who genuinely enjoys leading.
A little about me: I’m single, professionally employed, independent, and live a pretty quiet life outside of work. I enjoy movies, reading, getting outdoors when I can, and spending time with the people who matter to me. I value honesty, consistency, and clear communication.
As for an FLR, I’m naturally more comfortable in a supportive and submissive role. I find fulfillment in contributing to my partner’s happiness, respecting her leadership, and building a relationship where she feels appreciated, trusted, and free to be herself. For me, submission isn’t about pretending or constant protocol, it’s about willingly giving my trust, support, and respect to the right woman in a genuine, everyday relationship.
I’m genuinely attracted to confident, plus-sized women, so your description immediately caught my attention.
If you think we might be compatible, I’d enjoy getting to know you the same way you suggested—starting with who we are in everyday life and seeing whether there’s real chemistry before anything else. I’m happy to exchange current photos as well.
Thank you for taking the time to read my message, and I hope to hear from you.
Lee