Maybe I could contribute something here. After two years of looking (online, since dating is artificial and arbitrary to me), I got the message loud and clear that to women, men are to lead and be the head of the household–not possible for me, since even basic participation in society is problematic st best for me. So the wind was knocked out of my sails and I took a much less active interest in things after that. Within the last few months or so, I realized that those engaged in dating use the same social framework to do it in, meaning that i would have to as well, if i were to date even online. So i take no active interest in dating in any form. If a woman addresses me herself, i wont ignore her, but i know that a conversation will still wind up likely being impossible.