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  • #21951
    Ilovecolors
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    Probably can’t happen for me.

    #21958
    Bill
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    I dont know where you’re coming from, but I wasnt raised around other people, mandvi didn’t adapt to socializing as it’s commonly carried out. Even participants in female led relationships must use common socializing methods in dealing with others, so where does that leave me? I’m Bill.

    #21959
    Bill
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    I don’t know where you’re coming from, but I wasn’t raised around other people and didn’t adapt to common socializing. Even participants in female led relationships must socialize in the common way, so where does that leave me?

    #21962
    FlaFLR
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    What kind of a FLR relationship are you looking for?

    #21976
    Ilovecolors
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    A romantic one.

    #21979
    Bill
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    Are you asking ME that question? Because I can’t see any way around things, i have little hope that i can participate in the world around me. I know after a lifetime of being torn between where i am and where the average person is, that I’m a straggler of the general schools of fish, and though I’m a guy, this puts me in a place where vulnerability haunts me day and night. The closest I can put it is that I’m a male equivalent of a classical or traditional woman, with basically the same wants and needs.

    #21980
    Bill
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    I think it needs to be said that I’m neither gay, nor do I have gender-identification issues. I simply yearn for a woman who is strong, responsible and has a sense of authority.

    #22006
    Ilovecolors
    Participant

    No I’m not.

    #22027
    Bill
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    I see. My mistake. I would have thought that different conversations would be handled differently. That’s confusing.

    #22074
    Ilovecolors
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    It has to do with me being frustrated because I probably can’t get a boyfriend not cknversations.

    #22081
    Mike
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    I met my wife through online dating.

    She highlighted her ambitious nature and wasn’t shamed into pleasing people. It’s better to have fewer better matches than lots of bad ones

    #22084
    Bill
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    Maybe I could contribute something here. After two years of looking (online, since dating is artificial and arbitrary to me), I got the message loud and clear that to women, men are to lead and be the head of the household–not possible for me, since even basic participation in society is problematic st best for me. So the wind was knocked out of my sails and I took a much less active interest in things after that. Within the last few months or so, I realized that those engaged in dating use the same social framework to do it in, meaning that i would have to as well, if i were to date even online. So i take no active interest in dating in any form. If a woman addresses me herself, i wont ignore her, but i know that a conversation will still wind up likely being impossible.

    #22085
    Bill
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    My point is that if you think you have it bad, then what about someone like me? I’m not feeling sorry for myself, because I know that I cant control how things go in life. I would have to wait until a woman encountered me and understood where I was coming from and wanted to take a role in my life accordingly. That would be a rare thing. Even female led relationships almost certainly must abide by the social framework that everyone else uses, so I cant really count on that, either.

    #22145
    Ilovecolors
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    I want a boyfriend and it frustrates me that I probably can’t have one.

    #22147
    Ilovecolors
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    I want a boyfriend and it frustrates me that I probably can’t get one.

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