I am interested in learning more about this lifestyle. That said, there is a part of it that kind of has me struggling.
If a man is submissive to his wife in this type of relationship, he yields to her. (how much depends on the level.) After a while, I would think this would be a big part of his mindset.
But how does this translate to the world outside of his relationship? Most men have careers and have to make money. If a dude yields to everyone out in the world, he becomes a door mat and people walk all over him. Men in society are still expected to be strong and capable. I am old enough to know that if you don’t stick up for yourself, you are screwing yourself.
I would find it hard to ‘turn it off’ outside of my relationship.
How do people deal with this?