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I am a 70-year-old very submissive German man (divorced, no kids) who wonders how many dominant women here can imagine a purely platonic or cunnilingus-centered relationship. Although I am very healthy, I have never been good at penetrative sex. But there’s nothing I’d rather hear than an orgasming, fully satisfied woman!
I would therefore be happy to accept the cuckold role, but I have no experience of how well such a relationship lasts.
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Yes, I could see myself involved in what you describe. And there are woman who have problems with their sexual organs who can’t have penetrative sex without pain and it sounds perfect for them. But if you are going down on her, the relationship is not platonic. A Platonic relationship is one with no romance and no sex of any kind. There is a misunderstanding the world over that penetrative sex is the only real sex. But there is a whole range of sexual and erotic behaviors that do not involve the male sex organ.
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I find the idea of a relationship with no penetrative intercourse, or very little, to be quite interesting, erotic and very attractive. As Joy says however, this is not a platonic relationship if the male is pleasing a woman sexually in other ways.
The practice of orgasm control or denial for the man works well with this kind of sexual dynamic, especially within the context of a Female Led Relationship. In this way, the man’s pleasure is found in pleasing the female, she being the leader of the relationship, in the sexual dynamic as well as some of the other “food groups” described elsewhere on this web site.
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There are platonic FLRs and marriages in which the guy is a cuckold and has no sexual relationship with the woman leader. He doesn’t get to watch her have sex or be involved in her sex life in any way.
There are also many marriages in which the couple has stopped having any sexual interaction. Some of those marriages have a power-exchange dynamic.
There are also many relationships where siblings or best friends live together with no sexual relationship, but one is clearly in charge, functioning as a level 1-3 FLR.
I believe a platonic FLR is more common than yiu think. -
I advise you to find a woman around 70–75 who also never liked penetration. You two would be a perfect match: you lick her, she cums, and you get off on watching her orgasm. Ideal “platonic” relationship.
But I strongly suspect you won’t do that. What you really want is a younger woman (45–55) so you can regularly have access to her cunt while pretending to be a ‘submissive man who only cares about her pleasure.’
Essentially, it’s the classic wish to get sexual service from a younger woman without offering anything meaningful in return. Because with a 72-year-old woman your own age, you’d probably lose interest in her orgasms very quickly. Yes, the kind of relationship you’re describing does exist — but almost exclusively in elderly couples who have spent decades together. They have deep trust, love, and mutual care built over a lifetime, and when penetrative sex becomes impossible for natural reasons, this kind of intimacy can still work.
But without that long shared history of trust, passion, and love, what you want is rarely sustainable. It usually becomes just one-sided exploitation.
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