Mistress VIP,
My observation is that many people in general are not expressing themselves well in writing or not reading thoroughly and with comprehension. This goes for men and women. It has nothing to do with sex or gender.
I experience this across many contexts: business emails, social media posts, work reports and other business documents and (yes) on dating websites – including this one.
My own comments on a site like this are sometimes not well thought out or not expressed well. So, yes, I am guilty too of not writing well on-line.
I mentioned this here because I think it makes meeting people and getting to know them from a distance more difficult. Poor writing on-line, or incomplete understandings of what others have tried to say in writing, hurts our efforts to get to know people here on-line.