Well, well, well…
All that effort on April 15th, and thirty days later? Crickets. Let me grace this with my two cents.
Let me start by saying I adore the audacity. You’ve crafted quite the wishlist for your ideal Dominant Woman: educated, successful, ambitious, owns a home, happy, loving, financially thriving—basically, a high-powered CEO who also moonlights as a sensual goddess. And yet… your own resume reads like a ‘Take Me As I Am (But Also, I Offer Nothing Tangible)’ manifesto.
Let’s Play ‘Match the Energy’!
You want a woman whose life is already beautiful, successful, and emotionally unburdened—just like yours, as you say. So, let’s compare:
She owns a home (or is close to it). Do you? Or are you expecting to move into her beautifully curated space, where she can dominate you aesthetically in her designer dungeon?
She’s educated, ambitious, and career-driven. Are you a retired executive? A self-made man? Or are we banking on the ‘I’ll obey’ as your sole contribution to her boardroom energy?
She’s happy, kind, and without bitterness. Wonderful! But if your life is so fulfilled… why does your ad scream ‘Please Own Me, I’m Desperate for Purpose’?
The Hard Truth:
A woman like the one you describe doesn’t need a submissive man—she chooses one. And she’ll choose someone who adds value to her already fabulous life. So, what’s your selling point beyond ‘I’ll do whatever you want’?
Can you fund her next luxury vacation?
Are you a connoisseur of fine wines, art, or anything that might stimulate her intellectually?
Do you have the social capital to match hers, or are you just hoping she’ll lower her standards because you’re really into obedience?
The Real Question:
Why would a woman who has everything want a 62-year-old ‘blank page’? If she’s that successful, she can hire a butler, a masseur, and a plaything—separately. What makes you the all-in-one package?
You say you’re ‘very supportive’—great! But how? Emotionally? Financially? Or just in the ‘Yes, Mistress, I’ll fetch the remote’ sense? Because if it’s the latter… well, Alexa can do that, and she doesn’t require aftercare.
Final Challenge:
Rewrite your ad—but this time, imagine she’s reading it with the same scrutiny she uses when signing a business deal. Would you invest in you? If not… maybe start by becoming the man who deserves the woman you’re describing.
P.S. If the answer is ‘But submission is my only personality trait!’—then, my friend, you’re not looking for a FLR. You’re looking for a hobby.”
