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okay really not sure what to put down here I’m a very submissive male looking for a dominant woman. I’ve been submissive my whole life. But mostly i have kept it to myself. Now that I’m 62 I would like to explore it more. And find someone that I can serve in a female led Relationship Or someone like in a mistress type situation Who owns me I’m looking for someone who doesn’t ask. She tells And then I do. I might ask. But her answers are Up to her and what she wants and desires And I do What she wants When she wants it Someone who will put me in my place. As we all know I’m just a guy. And as a guy will try to get away with what I can. You know how it is, Give us an inch We’ll take a foot, Give us a foot We’ll take a yard, Give us a yard We’ll take a mile etc.. The way I see it once I am owned or claimed by someone or In that relationship a FLR with a dominant woman. I will be 100%. Loyal just to her, Basically I will become her pet her slave. Her toy her plaything I will do what she wants when she wants it, It will be all about her, serving her, Her wants and her needs. I know I put down above four Really I’m real Knew at all this I put down above a fore because I have thought about this. A lot And what My position or role will be in a female lead relationship Basically I’m Like a blank page or lump of clay ready for someone to fill in the blanks or mold me The way she wants. The reason I put down four Above is because. I Have thought about this A lot And what My place Will be And As I see it. It’s all about her. What makes her happy? What gives her pleasure What pleases her, Her wants and desires. I’ve been on this journey a while Looking on several different sites I’ve Run across some scammers and some Blackmailers and who are Just out to get money Right now as much as they can. I don’t know exactly what I have to offer, Except for me To give me to someone completely. I get the same question all the time. When I talk to someone about this Kind of a relationship or BDSM and stuff, this lifestyle, one question is always what am I into? The way I see it, it doesn’t matter about what i am into Whomever I end up with. It’s basically about what she’s into. what she wants I have to do Whatever makes her happy has nothing to do with me. It’s all about her. Second question I always get is about My kinks The only way to answer That is the same way It doesn’t matter what my kinks might be. It’s all about what she wants. What her kinks or desires are what turns her on Yes, there are probably some things I’m not into or maybe i Might not wanna do or like or into but That doesn’t matter cuz it’s about what she wants and Only what she wants. And that’s what will make me happy. To know I pleased her that i have Given her pleasure. Or have done what she’s wanted. The way I see it. It’s like a pet puppy. she will own me She owns my body. He owns my cock She owns My ass She owns My orgasms she owns Me completely It’s all about her wants and desires. And how she wants me to be. Okay I’ve rattled on now and I hope I painted a pretty good picture. Who I am and what I’m looking for a FLR If you think you fit or want to ask any questions about anything else. Hit me up. I don’t know if You’re able to get my email or not but I will check back. And see if I’ve had any replies. I’d rather do this one on one. Personal and privately in a email or other Messaging service Let me know If you want to do that too.
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Well, well, well…
All that effort on April 15th, and thirty days later? Crickets. Let me grace this with my two cents.Let me start by saying I adore the audacity. You’ve crafted quite the wishlist for your ideal Dominant Woman: educated, successful, ambitious, owns a home, happy, loving, financially thriving—basically, a high-powered CEO who also moonlights as a sensual goddess. And yet… your own resume reads like a ‘Take Me As I Am (But Also, I Offer Nothing Tangible)’ manifesto.
Let’s Play ‘Match the Energy’!
You want a woman whose life is already beautiful, successful, and emotionally unburdened—just like yours, as you say. So, let’s compare:She owns a home (or is close to it). Do you? Or are you expecting to move into her beautifully curated space, where she can dominate you aesthetically in her designer dungeon?
She’s educated, ambitious, and career-driven. Are you a retired executive? A self-made man? Or are we banking on the ‘I’ll obey’ as your sole contribution to her boardroom energy?
She’s happy, kind, and without bitterness. Wonderful! But if your life is so fulfilled… why does your ad scream ‘Please Own Me, I’m Desperate for Purpose’?
The Hard Truth:
A woman like the one you describe doesn’t need a submissive man—she chooses one. And she’ll choose someone who adds value to her already fabulous life. So, what’s your selling point beyond ‘I’ll do whatever you want’?Can you fund her next luxury vacation?
Are you a connoisseur of fine wines, art, or anything that might stimulate her intellectually?
Do you have the social capital to match hers, or are you just hoping she’ll lower her standards because you’re really into obedience?
The Real Question:
Why would a woman who has everything want a 62-year-old ‘blank page’? If she’s that successful, she can hire a butler, a masseur, and a plaything—separately. What makes you the all-in-one package?You say you’re ‘very supportive’—great! But how? Emotionally? Financially? Or just in the ‘Yes, Mistress, I’ll fetch the remote’ sense? Because if it’s the latter… well, Alexa can do that, and she doesn’t require aftercare.
Final Challenge:
Rewrite your ad—but this time, imagine she’s reading it with the same scrutiny she uses when signing a business deal. Would you invest in you? If not… maybe start by becoming the man who deserves the woman you’re describing.P.S. If the answer is ‘But submission is my only personality trait!’—then, my friend, you’re not looking for a FLR. You’re looking for a hobby.”
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Let’s Play ‘Spot the Difference’!
ssjonfytu Ad: 62 ut/ sub slave looking for dominant women for FLR : 62, desperate for a Dominant CEO goddess.houseboyseeksdomme Ad: 49M BC Canada seeking loving supportive woman – relationship first, bdsm second
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generous expectations. Yet here you are, reposted Ad with the same demands (word-for-word, how lazy!), now with a new age and fresh username.
49M houseboyseeksdomme !Suddenly younger? Or just bad at math?
Still Missing: Any reason a woman with her life would want yours.
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