Every day when my Wife comes home from work, i give Her a foot massage. Not only is it nice for Her, but it’s a good time for us to talk. i spend about an hour so it’s long enough to talk over whatever’s on our minds.
i’ll confess that it doesn’t always go smoothly…sometimes it’s more like She’s interrogating me, and other times She says to just be quiet, but the vast majority of times it’s a valuable time for us to share.