I realized this a couple of years ago. I noticed that I naturally tend to take charge and handle decisions on my own and don’t really like answering to anyone. However, I also realized my worth and that I deserve to be pampered and spoiled. So there’s a balance to it. Women nowadays are pressured to be independent women to the point sometimes we are seen as weak if we accept help from a man. So I actually have to swallow my pride to allow a man to help me. With this dynamic (FLR), it fits perfectly into my lifestyle because I know that the man wants this. He wants me to make the decisions without me worrying about hurting his ego/masculinity and he wants to bend over backwards to take care of all my needs while I’m doing my own thing. Therefore I am not weak. It’s very empowering. It seems that I just need to date a different type of man. Do you know where I could find one of these men?
That’s so true. Society expects so much these days.
I would describe myself as an amiable guy and a people pleaser. I’m not looking to top from the bottom as it were. When looking for a date I don’t use words like femdom or control and prefer to talk about actions I can I do. Let conversations gently steer that way