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About Me
I am looking for one American man who is genuinely interested in building a long-term Female Led Relationship (FLR) as a lifestyle, not as an occasional fantasy. My goal is a committed relationship that may naturally lead to marriage if we are compatible.
I am American citizen primarily interested in retired American men (citizen) or men who are financially independent and no longer tied to full-time employment. My lifestyle includes extensive travel, and I need a partner who has the freedom to enjoy that lifestyle with me.
I offer partnership, not domination for its own sake. The structure of our relationship will depend on what each of us hopes to receive, what each of us can contribute, and the agreements we make together. All aspects of our BDSM dynamic should be based on informed consent, mutual respect, clear communication, and negotiated boundaries.
I can provide a private guest apartment in my Florida home for relocation while we get to know each other. This allows both of us to maintain privacy and independence as we determine whether we are truly compatible. If you already have your own home with comfortable guest accommodations, I would also consider relocating to you.
I travel frequently and spend approximately six months each year in Europe, Central America, and Latin America. You should either enjoy traveling with me or be comfortable maintaining a relationship during those periods.
I believe both partners should be financially independent. Please have sufficient retirement income or other reliable financial resources to comfortably support yourself. I am not looking for a dependent partner.
A healthy lifestyle is very important to me. I am only interested in men who are completely free from addictions. Recreational drugs, nicotine, and regular alcohol use are not compatible with the life I want to build.
Physical fitness, emotional maturity, honesty, reliability, and open communication are qualities I value most. My Ideal Partner
Retired or financially independent American citizen.
Interested in a genuine long-term Female Led Relationship.
Looking for a serious relationship that may lead to marriage.
Emotionally mature, healthy, and physically fit.
Free from nicotine, recreational drugs, and regular alcohol use.
Comfortable with frequent travel and periods when I am abroad.
Financially independent and able to support himself.
Please Read Before Contacting Me
I am not interested in online relationships. I have no desire to spend months or years exchanging messages, role-playing, or living in a virtual D/s fantasy.
If you are genuinely interested in building a real-life Female Led Relationship, you should be willing to arrange an in-person meeting within a reasonable time. I regularly spend time in Florida, Costa Rica, Europe, and Latin America, so meeting is entirely possible for someone who is serious.
If you are not prepared to meet in person in Florida or Costa Rica, it is probably best not to contact me.
Over the years I have had too many experiences with people who enjoyed endless online fantasies but never intended to build a real relationship. I value my time and no longer invest it in virtual dynamics. I am not looking for an online Mistress/submissive arrangement. I am looking for a life partner who embraces an FLR lifestyle in the real world.
I am looking for a real partner for a real life—not an online Dominant/submissive performance.
If we are compatible, we can negotiate every aspect of our relationship openly, honestly, and with mutual respect, following established BDSM principles of informed consent, communication, and clearly negotiated agreements. -
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I would like to respond publicly to FLR4You accusation.
I have an extensive private 30+26 =56 correspondence with the member FLR4You. At no point did I send him my phone number, my email address, or ask him to move our conversation to Signal or to any other messaging app. In fact, I don’t even have a Signal account.
All of our communication has taken place through the site’s private messaging system and has been polite, respectful, and completely normal.
Therefore, I have no idea why this accusation was made or what purpose it serves.
For me, it is simply another reminder to be cautious. Lengthy online conversations do not necessarily reflect a person’s real intentions.
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The long, sweet correspondence this profile built up gave me the impression that it was carefully designed to create the image of a successful, intelligent, attractive, financially secure young retiree. Whether that image was genuine or not is something each person can judge for themselves.
What I can state as a fact is this: despite repeated attempts, I never gave him my phone number, never moved our conversation to a private messenger, and never gave him my Signal ID.
Now he is publicly claiming that I did.
I respectfully ask the moderators to review our conversations. If I did provide him with a Signal ID, it should be easy to find. If I did not, then his accusation is false.
Making false public accusations against another member is a serious matter, and I believe it should be addressed accordingly.
Thank you
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