Some of the ‘clasics’ are:
The New Bride’s Guide to Training Her Husband by Emily and Ken Addison
The Hesitanat Mistress by Dvanna Hightower
How To Set Up An FLR by Georgia Ivey Green
The Mistress Manual by Mistress Lorelei
The Good Wife’s Guide to Taking Charge by Rebecca Lawson
Good luck! And remember, building an FLR can take years, but it’s soooo worth it!