That is interesting the different details of women’s jeans to men’s. I can imagine that you may feel anxious around men in that situation. Have you ever had a guy speak negatively to you because he noticed that you were wearing women’s jeans/clothes?
I had the opposite once when I was wearing calf high boots on a train at night. I was wearing a long winter guy and smart trousers (typical guy wear) but boots underneath with a stiletto heel. I got on to the train and a girl was sat next to her partner and she looked at me straight away. I could hear her say “is he wearing boots?” Her partner/boyfriend/husband just said “shush” to her. I felt more comfortable with the male than the female.