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It’s OK to be a submissive man, but you have to be smart about it. It’s still a taboo and not socially accepted in the vanilla world.

Most women don’t want a submissive man. But they love an attentive man who treats them like a queen. Sometimes you have to keep your submissive tendencies to yourself and serve her stealthily. She won’t know your intent, but you will.

It’s not the best solution, but it’s a solution.

Otherwise, maybe you can meet someone who’s clued into FLRs on Fetlife or at a local munch. That would be better. Pro-tip: Don’t give anyone money.

There are plenty of women looking for real subs. Most men haven’t a clue what it means to serve a women. True subs are a rare breed.

If you are truly submissive, there is a woman for you.