100% agreed with @zero’s advice. Plus, I think we must be aware that it is just as akward to be a dominant woman as a submissive man in our society. So, I understand that we can be bitter with respect to the societal context we are living in… But I think this must not lead us to be bitter about individuals (or specific groups of individuals), but instead lead us to undertake productive actions to change all of this, in a positive way! 🙂