My wife dates and has a lover with whom she has sex, with my complete support because I want her to be happy. I have a small penis and have always had performance anxiety which interferes with maintaining an erection, and as a result have never been able to give her the fulfilment and staisfaction she deserves.
I’m not in a chastity cage 24/7 but have to wear it at night and whenever I’m unsupervised. It’s the metal bars style, which can set off metal detectors so if we fly anywhere I can’t wear it (but she’d be with me then anyway)